Lemmy is SO so so so much smaller. They have to be real desperate to try here, especially when reddit is a thing that exists. Everybody say, "thank you, reddit!"
this post was submitted on 09 Nov 2026
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We're what.... 1% of the size of Reddit? Less? (Lemmy+Piefed, not the whole Fediverse). To set up custom APIs and annoyances for what would probably be almost insta-banned doesn't seem worth it compared to Reddit who will happily allow you to send to near everyone. Hell a basic NSFW subreddit is probably magnitudes larger than all of us.
Much, much less. Reddit has some fraction of a billion active users, going by it's status as one of the big world platforms, while we have some fraction of 10,000, so more like 0.001%.
Lemmy + Piefed (+mbin if you want) is something like 38,000 users.
Users in general, or active users? Reddit probably has tens of billions of inactive accounts.
If it is active users, and Lemmy-Piefed is suddenly growing, that's great, though.
That's "monthly active users". Though a bit different from how reddit counts their MAU as Lemmy can't report on logged out users (since that info isn't collected or shared between instances) and doesn't report on users logged in but not interacting (you must vote, comment, or post within the last month to count).
The fediverse is growing but slowly, and is nowhere near the peak of 3 years ago. But no one expected it to stay.
If you check the Lemmy history you'll find it very slowly losing users, but piefed is gaining users faster than Lemmy is losing them.
Unfortunately fediverse.observer shut down recently so it's hard to find the past stats these days.
We're what.... 1% of the size of Reddit? Less?
I have no idea but my gut says not even one-thousandth
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That's probably the reason, yeah.
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The reason is that only girls are allowed to horny post on Lemmy. And everyone else is confined to https://fedinsfw.app/.
What a lovely day on the Inter...
GOOD LORD
It's not a request guys.
only girls are allowed to horny post on Lemmy.
Vile-let comes to mind...
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Only DMS I get are people arguing with me who know their comments won't be well received in the public forum lol
At this point, it's been less than an hour. How many jokers have sent you creepy DMs?
I highly considered sending a joke dm. But decided against it cause it made me feel icky.
I was going to send a cat picture with a pussy pun...
I did do it and damn you're right it does feel icky. I went for a creeper.
I thought the same thing. It's funny if everyone does it, but if I'm the only one that has the idea, that's just creepy.
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Ask and you shall recieve.
This is not reddit. No one wants it to be either. You should let that go and stop trying to make this place like reddit.
I have really only gotten, “Hello”
And obvs our gf hit me up.
Amusing that the comments are like "but don't you know about that one person?"
It's been known to happen. Tho all the cases I have seen of it were mods or admins of questionable instances/comms sending the creepy DMs and those getting posted to the various mod abuse communities.
I've gotten one and can teach you how if you'd like to know
Even if we did, we shouldn't feed the narcissist.
It's not a request.
I mean people who do things like that are attention chasing, so posting about it gives them that.
Oh.
I had never ever gotten a DM on Reddit, but I also only had like 800 total karma across all accounts.
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