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I guess one thing I like already is that there's no requirements for Karma, stupid rules about Reddit's filters which got my 100k karma account permanently banned for no reason at all.

Would you prefer Lemmy to be smaller like it is now or get to a reddit level popularity but without the reddit jank.

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[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 6 points 6 hours ago

It's maybe hard to have alongside privacy, but I liked that on old forums, it was often real people. On one forum, there were a few meetups with BBQ. The site owner/admin called me on my birthday. It led to real-life relationships.

But the flipside to that is the infamous Reddit meetup.

[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 9 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I just want to get more people so we can have some niche communities going. The only thing I miss about Reddit is asking a random question in a niche sub and getting a response in like 15 minutes.

[–] IonTempted@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 11 hours ago

I don't disagree at all, and that's the only thing I miss about Reddit, when I had an established profile and could just ask in whatever subreddit I want, emphasis on the "established profile" while Lemmy I started day 1 and I could instantly participate in wherever I wanted.

And sure Lemmy has like 40-50k monthly visitors, Imagine if it was 500k or 1M the good thing to give you hope, I didn't know what Lemmy was about a month ago, and now I do

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 18 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

This is unpopular but I'd like to see LESS niche communities. I dont want to see 1000 game communities I want to see one game community where all the people are making threads about the games they like. When its big enough then that game can split into its own community.

Because i may not go out of my way to find a community like guild wars 1 but if I see a post about it in the games community I'd join in. The interest isnt always there it needs to be created sometimes. And it can be created by people seeing threads of interested people talking about their interest.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 1 points 7 minutes ago* (last edited 1 minute ago)

How about community taxonomy?

Say there's a gaming community.

Then there’s a PC gaming community, then a MMO game community, and there’s communities for individual games subdivided into that.

So if you’re in /c/PCgaming, posts in /c/GuildWars will (by default) show up in your feed.

If you are in /c/GuildWars, you (by default) get the hyper focus, and exposure from your post filtering up to more general tiers.

But this sharing is toggleable too. For example, you could choose to only float it up to the “MMO” level without drawing in the /c/gaming crowd

And this structure kinda naturally fits underlying database structures anyway.


Reddit could not evolve like this, but now that we kinda know what niches exist, that could be constructed from scratch and maintained.

[–] T156@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago

As a whole, Lemmy isn't really big enough to branch out into individual game communities just yet. They just end up petering out.

[–] IonTempted@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 17 hours ago

I wouldn't be against it since r/games is used for mainly game announcements and r/gaming is a facebook tier cesspool. I wouldn't mind a community like that.

[–] HuntressHimbo@lemmy.zip 43 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

I want Lemmy to do a better job than reddit at keeping fascists from being free to spread their poison. Lemmy is already better at this with defederation, but its something to keep an eye on always.

I think it would be cool if Lemmy were a bit bigger than it is now. Enough of a population to keep niche communities moving would be great, but Lemmy at its current size is a nice escape from a lot of the political landscape you see on Reddit or Twitter.

[–] IonTempted@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

I don't disagree, however my main issue with reddit was it's awful system at triggering bots and it's moderation system. I think we SHOULD have moderation always to keep guys like that away and innapropriate stuff, otherwise you'll have another 4chan.

However I think Reddit is just too power hungry with bans for no reason as well, I've heard people here got banned from Reddit for "Violence against ICE" it's ridiculous.

Overall, I'd like this website to be more free.

[–] lmmarsano@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I want Lemmy to do a better job than reddit at keeping fascists from being free to spread their poison.

What fascists? They're rarely here.

Tankies, too? They're already here.

[–] HuntressHimbo@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 hours ago

What fascists? They're rarely here.

Yeah, that was my point when I said it was already in a better situation than Reddit with defederation. They're rarely here because they get quickly defederated. It's part of why I've stayed.

Tankies, too? They're already here.

Yeah and they're also mostly defederated too

[–] ristoril_zip@lemmy.zip 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

There's already the fact that whatever algorithms there are haven't been and likely won't be tweaked or pushed to maximize engagement.

Heck I'm not even sure if upvotes are particularly critical to what I'm getting served...

[–] catbum@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

I really appreciate that about lemmy.

Comments shot from the hip don't shoot to the top and stay there.

A lot of these communities automatically sort by new, at least when it's not very populated, or by the so-called hot or active comment sorts. They seem to have a better (less biased?) algorithm in general, even if that means I see something so stale or unengaging that I ask myself why they bothered in the first place. It takes all kinds though.

Still, to me, that sorting practice helps more nuanced, variably informed comments get decent air time. Ya gotta scroll it before you dole amirite?

[–] Blizzard@lemmy.zip 18 points 19 hours ago

Keep supporting 3rd party apps

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 19 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

I wish it was 100% devoid of nazis, fascists and other authoritarians.

Unfortunately the main developer of the software is a genocide denying tankie dipshit so fat chance of that happening.

[–] korendian@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 hours ago

I just got blocked from .ml for calling someone a tankie. Good riddance.

[–] Blizzard@lemmy.zip 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

There are literally openly communist communities on Lemmy... 🤦🏻‍♂️

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 6 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

"Communist"

Looks inside

It's just a bunch of failed Vanguardist movements that ended up becoming Authoritarian State Capitalism

[–] MolochAlter@lemmy.world -2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Authoritarian State Capitalism

Yeah exactly, communism.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Communism is by definition a stateless, classless society. A "Communist State" is therefore an oxymoron.

[–] IonTempted@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

I'm of the opinion that as large as this community gets (or any community) it's bound to have many characters.

I guess I don't mind that much because I think A) You won't ever have a large site where everyone 100% agrees with you all the way, unless you are on a specific political community and even then I've seen many infights and civil wars over small issues.

B) I've dealt with many of them in worse sites (Yes even 4chan) that I don't mind them anymore, as long as they contribute in their own communities and don't cause harm for the website then they can chirp on their communities as much as they want, I was the kind of guy that enjoyed Political Compass memes on reddit even though it got ruined by Right-Wingers now, I was on that subreddit long before though and as soon as literal Nazis joined the subreddit got worse.

C) We should absolutely have rules to ban people that post innapropriate, illegal stuff but I feel like this website should be easier than Reddit on the moderating stuff, I'm 100% on banning Nazis and fascists if they make the site worse for everyone else, though I happened to have some interesting conversations with some Conservatives. Reddit on a whole has an awful moderating system that ironically enough doesn't ever get checked by human beings and I don't want to see the same here, I've heard people that got banned because they had the mental health crisis bot even though they didn't do anything, I've heard people got banned for similar ways that I did for posting a meme lol.

Take of this what you will.

[–] redlemace@lemmy.world 20 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Never start replacing vowels in 9 out of every 10 words with astrixes.

[–] deranger@sh.itjust.works 6 points 20 hours ago
[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 17 points 20 hours ago

Fuck Reddit and Fuck Spez.

[–] lmmarsano@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 15 hours ago
  • Enforcement of accessibility.
  • No reddit-style moderation: the moderators at reddit are unaccountable tyrants.
  • Minimal moderation preferably little more than legal compliance & accessibility/usability standards.
  • Rejection of loaded reddit moderation concepts such as
    • brigading
    • sealioning
    • calling anything annoying harassment
  • Freedom to openly criticize moderators.
[–] radiouser@crazypeople.online 15 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I'm already having a good experience with Lemmy. A couple of features that would make it perfect for me are better discovery tools for communities and the ability to merge feeds from similar ones.

And I have to say, searching for anything (whether here or on Reddit) always feels like a bit of a challenge. A more robust search feature would be amazing! But overall, I'm really enjoying the vibe here.

[–] IonTempted@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Definitely, the good thing about Reddit is that it had a good player as well because I'm a guy who spent a lot of time making content, also you can upload videos no matter the size (I think) which is cool.

I'm new but also enjoying my time, I like how non judging this site is because on Reddit I'd get messages like "Uhhh OP has an interesting history" basically trolls and stuff, but It's whatever, I don't mind.

[–] radiouser@crazypeople.online 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

That's so true about the video player and upload limits, it's no doubt a huge plus for creators like you? And I totally get what you mean about the more welcoming vibe here; it's one of the best things about this space.

Just a friendly heads-up as you're getting settled: while it's generally much kinder, Lemmy has its share of 'interesting' characters here too (a wonderful mix of great people and a few bad apples). But the ability to curate your own experience is much stronger here!

Glad you're enjoying your time so far!

[–] IonTempted@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

I'm enjoying my time so far, I'm waiting my 100 day ban pass I guess from Reddit (I'm like almost there) and see what I do, I'll probably keep using this site since it allows me to be more free than reddit.

In general, I would also like to see this site adopting more niche subreddits, I know I can probably make a lot of those but I don't have a lot of time to moderate stuff.

[–] T156@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

It's a bit more of an issue in its earlier days compared to now, but it also needs to stop copying Reddit. People aren't going to go to Lemmy if its communities are just copies of Reddit posts.

At the same time, there's an argument that it shouldn't be trying to compare itself with Reddit anyway. It should try to be its own thing.

[–] IonTempted@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

There's always going to be people sick of Reddit's rules as myself but you are right, let's say Half Life 3 gets announced tomorrow out of the blue, first place I would go is Reddit to see the reactions, I think Lemmy competing on that department doesn't make sense but I feel like Reddit needs some competition, I heard that the co-founder was building a Reddit competitor though I have no idea how that went.

This site already does something better than reddit, I love how I can just write comments thread after thread making posts without having to worry if it gets removed somehow. I love just the simplicity of posting here.

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Frankly it being Federated in and of itself is already the biggest advantage over Reddit in my opinion. And let's face it all of our opinions really that's why we're here. That already solves probably the majority of problems that Reddit had. As for the rest though? Bots are always a problem, not all are bad of course some are quite useful, but it's something that requires constant vigilance to monitor because Bots can and will ruin communities. The other major issue is of course moderation. How do you police the mods? On that note I think the one thing I'd like to see done is limiting of power mods. Just like Reddit there do exist mods that moderate a large numbers of different communities. This will always lead to problems.

[–] CobblerScholar@lemmy.world 8 points 20 hours ago

A working search function, real annoying having to use a different search engine to find thing on a website that ostensibly already has one

[–] motor_spirit@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago

stop fucking worrying about reddit in so many places

I don't come here looking for news or updates on reddit nor do I need it to function as a mirror of reddit

Is there value on modeling something after another or taking modular parts that work? Sure, but a lot of posts and communities seem to function as watchmen, critiques, or mirrors

Let reddit be reddit

Lemme be Lemmy

[–] NegentropicBoy@lemmy.world 5 points 20 hours ago

Years ago I moved to Reddit as it then had a majority of intelligent and knowledgeable people. So good to have topics discussed reasonably, many new things to learn.

But it turned into meme city. And then became corporate.

Lemmy is nice so far!

[–] abbadon420@sh.itjust.works 2 points 19 hours ago

Don't be evil