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don't give me the it's never too late bs. Life happens, people have jobs, debts and rent to pay.

Going back to school when you're employed means debt, earning way less or nothing during your bachelor or master, stress, opportunities you're not aware of because you're simply not at your workplace anymore, unpaid overtime during those 2 to 3 years... the money you lose is more than what the bachelor / accreditation costs.

When does it start being a stupid idea? Is it when you're 30? 40? 50?

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 7 points 6 hours ago

When you're dead.

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 4 points 5 hours ago

depends why you are attending school. If it's to get a piece of paper, likely will not affect you later in life. if it's just to learn, walk in and audit a class. I have never said no to people auditing my lectures.

[–] valtia@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

The only time going to school isn't worth it is if you're already burnt out in your job, genuinely have no time to do it, and make so much money that adding university classes on top of that isn't worth the effort or time investment. Having said that, if you need the degree to increase your earning potential, even in your 30s or 40s or whatever, then it's worthwhile despite all the challenges. My mom got her degree in her 30s and massively increased her earning potential and that has paid off over the decades, and I'm currently getting my degree in my 30s to increase my earning potential as well.

There are remote school options where you don't need to attend classes so those are much easier to fit into your schedule, and much cheaper, places like Western Governors University.

[–] Sylence@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 hours ago

My grandmother graduated law school at the age of 65 and practiced for the next 15 years. It's never too late.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 points 6 hours ago

There's no single answer. Are you going so you can change careers? Do you have money to pay for it or will you have to take out loans? Do you expect to be able to pay your loans off in a reasonable amount of time to still meet your retirement goals? On top of that like you already said, can you juggle school while maintaining your current lifestyle? if not are you willing to make sacrifices?

Anyone considering it needs to make calculations on their own. It's not a set age. An older person with savings and no kids for instance would have a lot more flexibility than a younger person with a family.

[–] MuttMutt@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago

Your good until your in a pine box or an urn.

Learning should never stop for any reason. However you do have to temper your expectations when learning a trade or skill you can't use due to personal limitations. This needs to be taken into account but that is something an individual should weigh on their own with the people in their life.

[–] BilboBargains@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

It's difficult to overstate the importance of education. I went back to school at 32 with very little formal education. It was tough but having graduated after ten years I never regretted it. I'm doing a job that I love and have more employment options. Whether or not you go back depends on many factors, especially if it is a serious investment in time and money. I didn't like my work and that was what motivated me but I had savings and no debt or responsibilities.

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

There’s not one specific age you’re going to find is The Answer to this.

When you are young and still developing and have lots of time to find your path, it’s worth making the long term investment of some general schooling to maximize your own growth and development, and prepare yourself for a broad set of possible futures.

However, as your career progresses, it becomes less valuable to invest in general schooling, but specific training for your specific career can still be valuable.

There’s no cutoff point where all this flips. If you are 5 years into your career and still aren’t certain of what you want to do, an MBA may still be valuable. It will expose you to a range of skills and possible roles and give you some good general foundation for things like leadership roles, or starting your own business.

If you are 20 years into your career and want to rank up to earn more money, an MBA is probably more expensive than it is worth. At that point, your experience is much more valuable than shy degree. Sure, you might look better in a job interview with MBA on your resume, but getting an MBA is expensive and whatever small advantage it gives your resume will probably not pay for the cost of the MBA.

You need to figure out where you are in this journey. Do you still feel that you are exploring and looking for your niche? Schooling might help. Are you on a specific path and hoping to power up? Schooling may not help.

I am 20 years in. I took a class for $300 last year that was highly specific to my role and only required two days. That was worth it. Spending $40k on an MBA will not be worth it for me. I could be 38 or 54 years old, age isn’t really the point.

[–] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 2 points 8 hours ago

I've known even elderly people to go back and complete advanced degrees.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

It depends on what you want to do when you go back to school.

If you're switching careers, I'd put the early 40's as a limit unless the career has age limitations.

If you're getting a degree to enhance your existing career, I'd put the early 50's as a limit unless you intend to not retire immediately.

If you just want the degree, there isn't really a limit.

[–] Bluetreefrog@lemmy.world 0 points 6 hours ago

Depends on your circumstances. I plan to start a degree or PhD when I retire just to keep the brain active.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

It is never too late to go back is not bullshit.

people have jobs, debts and rent to pay.

I had all of the above and a family to support and I went back to school and got my masters degree.

[–] itsprobablyfine@sh.itjust.works 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

OP is saying at some point it financially doesn't pencil out. Like, if I make x now, spend y to get a degree, and then make z, about when does it stop making sense to spend y? Obviously this depends on a lot of things but the answer is definitely not never. I suspect they are trying to get a general sense of around when that would be because they don't know the exact values of x y and z.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 hours ago

All of that is what you are going back to school for.

[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 5 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

I went back to school in my 40s and changed careers.

[–] essell@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

Me too.

The increased pay covered the training costs and lost earnings within five years and I'm so much happier.

[–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Do you feel it was a viable and smart decision still?

[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 2 points 10 hours ago

For sure. I was in a dying industry, and now I have the makings of a career. I would say: have a goal, map out the steps it will take to achieve it, then take the first steps!

[–] DarkAri@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 hours ago

In theory never, in practice, after you have kids. Many people do it after having kids but they have amazing time management skills like my ex.

[–] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 57 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Menopause and severe brain fog would like a word.

[–] communism@lemmy.ml 9 points 13 hours ago

I've been through surgically induced menopause and I'm fine? It's a bit baffling and honestly misogynistic to suggest that basically any woman from middle age onwards is incapable of doing a degree. I don't think menopause made me stupider.

[–] olbaidiablo@lemmy.ca 5 points 14 hours ago

It depends upon the job you are pursuing. I went back to school at 35 to pursue a trade in HVAC. I don't recommend doing that much later. I ran into a lot of age discrimination when attempting to find a job.

[–] MyDogLovesMe@lemmy.world 38 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

My Mother got her Bachelor’s degree at 55. She graduated with some rare honours.

NEVER stop learning!

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Did she do it for the joy of learning? Or personal growth and satisfaction? Or was it for career enhancement?

[–] MyDogLovesMe@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

All of those reasons. She was a housewife, and felt she missed out. At that point kids were on their own paths.

[–] joyjoy@lemmy.zip 4 points 21 hours ago

Similar thing with my mom, only she retired soon after graduating. 

[–] Steve@communick.news 24 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

It's got nothing to do with age. As you pointed out there are financial reasons where you might not be able to. But that's realy the only hurdle. And there are plenty of ways to clear it.

[–] philpo@feddit.org 8 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

Never. Not what you want to hear,but hear me out. Because if it safes your sanity it is worth it.

  • I got my apprenticeship as a paramedic first and then went back to school to get my full A-Levels. Specialized school we have here,thankfully for these cases. The oldest one of my classmates was 52.

  • I studied economics with someone who was 55 and basically had already done the job we all wanted when we graduate for 25 years. He did so so he finally would get a more comprehensive background and maybe get up the ladder once more. (Which according to linked in he did)

  • I currently do another master (in a distant education setting,though) simply out of interest in the field and to broaden my CV. And you know what? I am 25 years in my field and still learned a fuckton of things, got a better network, love the research field AND got so much better at my job AND found a lot of opportunities.

  • An former paramedic trainee of mine was almost 50 when he started paramedic training. He was a C level executive before and at one point had enough - he changed careers so he would not get even more depressed and is now very happy with it. And I had multiple people do that in my bubble.

Now,from my current perspective: Was it stressful? Fuck yeah. I literally cried sometimes. Was it a tough time financially? Fuck yeah. I am self employed/have a small company and I had month were making ends meet was really though due to the added expenses and the lost revenue. But it still was worth it. Because: For what it's worth we all gonna need to work till 70+x anyway to afford retirement. And that's a long time.

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[–] communism@lemmy.ml 2 points 13 hours ago

I think this question greatly depends on where you live. Is uni free where you live? I'm guessing not from you mentioning the cost of a degree and debt. Then how does the debt work? In some countries, the government issues student loans that are repaid much less stringently than most loans, and it's not a big deal.

Depending on how the system works where you are, I'd weigh up the financial cost of going back to school vs what you would gain from it. What are you looking to get? Education for the sake of education? A better job, such that the financial cost of the degree will repay itself? The uni experience you missed out on? Something else? How much do you value that thing compared to how much it will cost you?

[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 13 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I went to school with quite a few mature students. They were all great classmates.

Lots of seniors go because they want edification. Never a stupid idea.

Now if you are asking financially, that depends on the time and cost of the program and the anticipated market for that kind of work. Do the math. Cost of school (tuition, books, materials and living expenses x number of years of the program) - opportunity cost of not working your current gig during those years, + the estimated differential of what you reasonably think you could make for the remainder of your new career before retirement.

Every program, job market and tuition support is different. Do the math with your own local info.

[–] db2@lemmy.world 19 points 23 hours ago

It's never too late. If you're 110 you might not make it to graduation though.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 5 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

Self-improvement is never a stupid idea.
Ceasing to work towqrd self-improvement is what's stupid.

I have a friend that is taking courses at 50… but we’re not in the US

[–] jqubed@lemmy.world 8 points 22 hours ago

It depends on if you’re going back to school for career reasons or personal enrichment. For the latter it really is never too late. For your career, though, too late will depend on when you’re hoping to retire, when you’ll complete the extra schooling, how much the school will cost, and how much more money you’ll expect to make with your new degree.

Without any info, assuming you want to retire around 65, I would think it would be normal to want to use your new degree for at least ten years, so whatever schooling you’d want to do you would want to be finishing by the time you’re 55. But those other variables come into play. If you’re borrowing $100,000 to pay for med school, your cutoff date will probably be earlier because it will take a longer time to pay off the student loans. On the flip side, if you’re paying $5-10,000 for a 6-month programming boot camp that will boost your income by $10-20,000/year then you might even consider doing that at age 60, especially if you’re already bringing a computer science background where your experience and new skills will keep you in high demand.

There’s not really a one-size-fits-all answer to this question.

[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

I’m an elder millennial in school I’m doing great and I love it. I can finally afford to go and I like learning new things from the younger generation. I’m proud of them they’re super cool

[–] krooklochurm@lemmy.ca 1 points 15 hours ago

Do you get invited to parties and stuff?

[–] swordgeek@lemmy.ca 7 points 23 hours ago

My wife got her masters degree last year, at age 58.

[–] gustofwind@lemmy.world 5 points 22 hours ago

You should never stop learning and school is a very good way to learn. If you don’t learn new stuff all the time your brain will literally stagnate and rot. It will atrophy.

Very few people are cut out for true self directed learning so, unless you’re one of the gifted few, structured and group learning is the best way to do it.

If you’re highly motivated anything is better than nothing. Find free courses, look stuff up, engage the academic world as best you can 🤷‍♀️

[–] bitofarambler@crazypeople.online 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

I graduated as a kid with 2 retirees in my psych classes who told me getting their degree was one of the most important, rewarding things they had ever done.

Also,, nowadays you can travel abroad in dozens of countries, take English-language courses and get accredited degrees in every field for very affordable tuition fees, as in 90% cheaper than the US.

While you're attending those schools, your cost of living will be dramatically lowered as well.

If anyone wants details, talk to me here or in Travel.

[–] adespoton@lemmy.ca 4 points 21 hours ago

Good/bad doesn’t have to do with age. Are you going to Harvard or a local college with subsidized night school classes? Are you wanting to learn a specific skill, get a degree, upskill for a career path, retrain for new work?

I had a grandfather who ended up deployed in the army when he was planning to go off to college. When he got back, he took the jobs he could and continually took night school classes.

My father got his masters degree when he was 46, which resulted in 20 years of increased pay at work.

Me? I’m constantly learning, using free online courses. I don’t care about the degrees or certifications; anyone who knows me knows what I’m capable of.

I knew a woman who got her PhD in Law at the age of 97.

My workplace pays for appropriate certifications for its employees.

There’s all sorts of ways to go to school.

[–] kubofhromoslav@lemmy.world 3 points 21 hours ago

Too late according to which criteria? Money? Definitely in the biological age when you can reasonably expect to not finish the school alive. And probable a bit earlier age.

Other quotation is for what to use school? If you definitely need a diplom to do what you want to do, that school makes sense.

Of you just want to learn something that is somehow useful, eg. for job promotion, than there are tons of great books, online video courses, many even free or cheap.

One my friend asked me about how to get to university in my country. When I dig deeper, it showed up she even don't need university for that topic of education and probable would do better without university at all.

[–] hydrashok@sh.itjust.works 3 points 21 hours ago

Education is everyone’s domain. It is never too late to learn new things.

[–] fizzle@quokk.au 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Study part time, alongside employment.

[–] Sergio@piefed.social 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Was gonna say this. Some jobs will help pay for classes (max 1 at a time) and some will even let you take the classes "on company time." With Distance Education this is easier than ever. I took classes while working for a couple years, then was gonna take a semester off work and finish a Master's Degree. (but ended up doing a PhD instead.)

[–] fizzle@quokk.au 2 points 4 hours ago

Super common in accounting in australia.

Degrees by themselves aren't very useful, you need the experience as well.

Just tick off 1 unit each semester.

[–] PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 22 hours ago

Either never or upon birth, depending on where you live.

[–] korendian@lemmy.zip 3 points 22 hours ago

Just finished my bachelor's at 39. I know people have finished a lot later than that too.

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