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Everyone knows how to sexualize female characters in video games.
But how to sexualize male characters and do "fan service" for the female audience?

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[–] DrPop@lemmy.world 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I saw screenshots of the new Resident Evil. Leon Scott Kennedy is definitely showing of for those that are into it. Capcom has at least figured it out.

[–] EvasiveSpecies@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

Haven't seen this much thirst from women since Baldur's Gate 3 dropped Astarion on us.

[–] RaoulDuke25@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 hours ago

Make them look like Danny DeVito or Shrek.

[–] Bluedragon012@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago

Oh that's easy, make them vaugly gay and twinky. Now if you are trying to arouse... Make them REALLY gay.

[–] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 4 points 7 hours ago

Last year the two sexiest guys were a dwarf who can cook and a mean zombie cowboy.

So I guess write a guy good personality, and throw in giving a shit about people around him.

[–] silverlightBeing@lemmy.ml 27 points 12 hours ago
[–] CommanderCloon@lemmy.ml 4 points 11 hours ago

I like feminine/twink guys, so everyone recommending bug buff guys 💀💀

But I'm a gay guy so not the target of OP's question 😅 I just barged in because it's a dry desert in terms of my preferences out there 💀

[–] hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 41 points 1 day ago (5 children)

To sexualize men for women, you have to understand women.

To men, attraction is largely visual. So to sexualize a woman for a male audience means making her look attractive, and dressed in a revealing outfit. Swapping the genders doesn't work. A visually attractive man in a revealing outfit is far more likely to appeal to either gay men sexually, or men generally as a power fantasy. To appeal to women you need a fundimentially different strategy altogether.

Consider erotic literature. Its a genre that is disproportionately popular with women. Its basically anti-porn, no visuals all story. Male characters in these stories are almost always sexualized by women for women. The attraction mostly from their choices and actions than appearance. You need a completely different approach.

Go read some smut. Talk to straight women about who and what they find attractive. You have to learn a lot about women to appeal to them. What they are looking for, and how they are looking for it is entirely different from men.

[–] bampop@lemmy.world 9 points 11 hours ago

I guess that's one of the less-acknowledged reasons why you see more sexualization of women in games. It costs next to nothing in terms of game design. Take any game, slap a scantily clad woman on it and bam, you've significantly increased your appeal to male audiences. To do the same for female audiences you have to build the entire game around that requirement.

[–] Simulation6@sopuli.xyz 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

It is almost impossible to avoid romance novels at the library. There are always multiple men, they are always attractive and mysterious in some way, and if it gets down and dirty it gets really dirty.

[–] NannerBanner@literature.cafe 3 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Interesting. I have had a fair bit of experience with romance novels, and the 'dirty' part is always so bland and rehashed that you could substitute one book's writing in for another's with no problems.

[–] MrDerpGently@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

Sure, but you can say the same of porn. There's a bunch of ways you can end up stuck in a dryer and there are any number of creative solutions to closing that deal, but the sex part gets pretty formulaic taken on its own.

[–] BranBucket@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

My wife listens to audiobooks out loud when she's alone and has left a more than few playing absent mindedly. Most of them seem to do pretty well in terms of both variety of acts and how they're described. But there are only so many euphemisms that manage to straddle the line between overly dry and patently rediculous.

She did have one book where the author over used the word cock enough that I swear the VA reading it was pronouncing it differently each time just to keep things interesting. It was kinda like: my Cock, MY cock, my coCK, my COCK, mY Cockkkk... my? cock? for a solid five minutes.

[–] NIB@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

One of the biggest mobile games on the planet is Love and Deepspace. It is a game that appeals to women(and gay men?) and on top of being kinda conventional videogame, it is the modern version of erotic literature.

I have only seen clips and they were much more spicy than most mobile games, even mobile games that appeal to straight men.

[–] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 6 points 23 hours ago

For anyone wanting to know more about these books, Reading Smut is a side-project podcast by the hosts of Reading Glasses. It's really interesting, with lots of thoughtful guests and often odd books. One of the first episodes covered a book about a door that comes to life and lusts after the woman who lives inside.

[–] A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Consider erotic literature. Its a genre that is disproportionately popular with women. Its basically anti-porn, no visuals all story. Male characters in these stories are almost always sexualized by women for women. The attraction mostly from their choices and actions than appearance. You need a completely different approach.

Yes, its no visuals. Thats why there isnt 500,000,000 books with fabio ripped and glistening on the covers.

[–] xorollo@leminal.space 6 points 1 day ago

Hey, dont judge a book of smut by the rippling muscled hunk on its cover!

[–] Aganim@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago

But how to sexualize male characters and do "fan service" for the female audience?

Easy, just add Caius Cosades to your game:

[–] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Hermit_Lailoken@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Conan Exiles has good donger physics.

[–] GimmeUrBelt@lemmy.today 2 points 11 hours ago

God I wish I could run that game on my PC. I'm relegated to ginormous goongaboongas on console.

[–] Klear@piefed.world 96 points 1 day ago (3 children)
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[–] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Watch some episodes of Charmed and look at the characters the sisters are flirting with, they are all different kinds of straight woman wish fulfillment.

Ofc women also sometimes are in the mood to get railed and knocked up, then a big hairy muscular guy is often the thing. But that mood comes upon most women relatively rarely. It's a kind of comfort and trust that makes you want to melt into a guy.

[–] CitizenKong@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago

I think Hades is an excellent example of a game which just sexualizes everyone.

[–] jellyfishhunter@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

I think you need to check out the genre of Otome games. There's hundreds of weird dating sim style games catered to women which feature a male cast.

It's debatable of how sexualized these characters are. But whatever they do appeals to their female audience.

[–] orenj@leminal.space 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)
[–] HuePony@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Noja@sopuli.xyz 2 points 3 hours ago

Dragon him too

[–] cattywampas@lemmy.world 82 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Same way. Hot bods, tight clothes, show plenty of skin.

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 43 points 1 day ago (9 children)

Women enjoying the same things as men? Why, I never!

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[–] LwL@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Seconding the otome comment, and a link to a relevant tag on vndb - you can probably find anything from not very sexualized to pure smut on that list, and there's often screenshots. https://vndb.org/g542

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 43 points 1 day ago (1 children)

According to my wife...

Dress shirt with sleeves rolled up to the elbow.

Kilts.

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[–] cinoreus@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Watch jojo. You are gonna get your answer best way possible

[–] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago

Jojo Rabbit? Not sure if Hitler is that sexy..

[–] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I've tried to get into Jojo so many times for the beautiful men, but I kinda get bored.

Regardless ,thanks Araki. I still love the art.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Strange, cause I'm a straight(ish) dude and it hooked me in season 2. Season 1 was cool, but the hyper batshit insanity of the following seasons hits.

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[–] Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 day ago

That's sexualizing men for everybody. He's asking how to do it specifically for women! It may seem like the same thing but it is different.

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 44 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It depends on the genre of the game.

Fighting games like Mortal Kombat? Put the men in skimpy outfits that show their muscles like the women.

Survival game? I don't need to see the characters sexualized while they're trying to survive a zombie apocalypse. Give me character depth and growth, empathy, and strong story-telling visuals. I'll fall in love with man or woman that way.

[–] GimmeUrBelt@lemmy.today 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Ever play Days Gone? I'm a straight dude and even I fell in love with Deacon St. John. Dude is the total package.

[–] DrPop@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

Reliable, faithful, and rides a motorcycle... yeah I get it.

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