Why I quit MMOs and never looked back, because even more than 20 years ago toxic behavior was being normalized, and that included offline PK.
Fucking little assholes nearly killed a grandmother.
this post was submitted on 20 May 2026
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Is Minecraft really even a MMO? My understanding is that it's usually smaller servers. This was probably more just some asshole using her streaming to attack, rather than a toxic player.
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Most american headline ever
Oh this absolutely happens here in europe too, just not with such a needlessly large amount of cops. Makes it no less dangerous though.
America has "police by intimidation" as its default response. Most of Europe seems to have "police by consent" as the default.
It leads to a different mentality. They might still roll out the whole cavalry, but it will more likely be led by a polite knock at the door, and an initial attempt to de-escalate.
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They mentioned in the video more cops came because they wanted to meet the gaming grandma, and they cleared the scene pretty quick.
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you have to be one sick twisted individual to be swatting a person, let alone a freaking elderly woman
While she's trying to raise money for her grandkid's cancer treatment, no less.
Seriously, fuck whoever did this.
And fuck who ever supports a system that results in this..
Dark thought, what if a supporter did it, 'cuz that kid is definitely getting their treatment paid for now.
Grandma could have died...
Making the mother of all omelettes here, Jack! Can't fret over every egg!
Damn, it did make the news after all.
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Confused european here - why?
Becusse in america nothing is better than being an edgelord
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That person achievement get: Massive piece of shit.
All cops are idiots.
Everyone blames swatting on the person who called in a fake report, but swatting only works because the are idiots. Someone actually decided to bring 20 cars to an house legally owned by an 85 year old with a single unverified repot as their only evidence.
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Never ceases to amuse me how they send a ridiculous amount of deputies to one situation. They couldn't agree on a team or maybe two qualified people, no, let's send the whole fucking department and have extras just incase.
Meanwhile, when an actual credible threat is ongoing: "We'll send our best confrontation avoider and check back in about 3 hours from now"
I will never forgive Uvalde police for that school shooting situation. Not only did they do nothing to stop the shooter, they actively held back parents who were going to do the cops jobs for them.
If I remember right, 23 kids, and 3 staff members died that day in an attack that took hours, but should have been stopped in minutes. They arrived on the scene 6 minutes after being called. Then they let it go on and on and on.
I will never forgive Uvalde police.
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I was paid a dawn visit many years ago by an armed unit (UK). The way they ran it was two plainclothes (handguns only) officers knock on the door to assess the threat, with a van full of tooled up guys in balaclavas just outside, just in case. It was all very chill and no unnecessary stress/escalation for anyone. Seems like this would be a more sensible approach.
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Whoever did this needs to be charged with attempted murder. You can't expect that police get a report of a threat at a residence (like a bomb threat or a murder threat) and they show up without weapons. Shame police time and resources had to be wasted ruining this poor old woman's Minecraft night.
I guess on the up side, not many 82 year olds can tell their friends that they are important enough to have so many people show up to their house so late at night.
EDIT: Early news reports say that police received a call that said her grandson shot her (the 82 year old grandmother) and was threatening to kill himself. Completely reasonable response to that kind of a threat, if that is what the call was.
EDIT2: Apparently the police may have been able to catch it as SWATting early by confirming with the grandson himself? The way he seemed to talk, the police were cordial and weren't aggressive, as if their guard was down maybe? They cleared the home to make sure the threat was fake, but I guess they were apologetic to grammcrackers, and she seemed in good spirits about it at least.
Completely reasonable response to that kind of a threat, if that is what the call was.
I think twenty cars is still too many
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