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Whenever I talk to any Democrat supporters, they by-default cheer their Presidents and then I've to remind them of their leader's illegal wars and war crimes. They condemn those acts and they go back to their cheerleading role - Why do they keep forgetting atrocities committed by their leaders? Why do they accept war criminals as their leader?

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[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Liberals let republicans set the bar because they have no other way to look good. Democrats couldn't pass up one more opportunity to run against Trump and decided to slow walk his prosecution.

"Now they'll have to vote for us, or we will punish them with Trump again!"

[–] Nytefyre@piefed.social 17 points 2 days ago

"AS LONG AS THEY'RE NOT THE ORANGE MAN, WE GOOD!"

Their entire logic.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Gonna disagree with some of the crowd here and say I think those people typically aren't bloodthirsty/supportive of war. They've never believed many examples of inhumanity have been direct consequences of democratic leadership, and some (I have the Gaza genocide in mind here) they've never believed existed at all. They'll see an "expert" voice an opinion that they're already inclined to believe at present. The "expert" authoritatively cites evidence that they're not familiar with, so seems legit enough. They're not going to trust you to have knowledge the "expert" doesn't, but they're not interested in holding the discussion with you because they don't carry the mythical knowledge that would win them the argument. They concede the point ahead of time to avoid conceding after a debate that didn't convince them. It's not forgetting, it's pretending that they agree with your assessment.

A huge factor is how detached we are from atrocities that don't touch us. I really believe that if one of these people had a friend or family that were affected by this, they would think a lot more deeply on culpability. I lived in Dearborn during the last election and I didn't get the sense that muslims there were more likely to abstain from voting (or vote third-party) than non-muslims. I know this is partially a function of who I was talking with (mostly academia), but I'm convinced that a big factor was that all of us knew someone in our personal lives that had been emotionally injured by losing family.

There's a good argument that ignoring atrocities is a moral failure, but I think most of us can relate. There are so many evils in the world today that if I actually spent time to think on even a fraction of them I think I'd be in a mental institution. That recent exposé on the dogs that were trained to rape prisoners, I can acknowledge it's almost certainly real and that saying otherwise would be an injustice to the victims, but in my heart I don't actually believe it happened because I don't feel capable of managing the emotions that would come with accepting it. If you're already overwhelmed by other aspects of the hellscape you live in, at some point reacting to horrifying headlines by throwing up your hands and booting up a video game becomes a survival strategy.

[–] 0_o7@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's a good argument that ignoring atrocities is a moral failure, but I think most of us can relate. There are so many evils in the world today that if I actually spent time to think on even a fraction of them I think I'd be in a mental institution.

There is ignoring atrocities you can do nothing about and then there's ignoring atrocities because your side is the one committing/contributing to it.

If you're on the side of contributing to genocide and still ignoring it, where do you think it will lead to? Someone's going to figure out how to use the apathy and profit off of it. And It's only going to get worse until it knocks at your door.

And that's how US got trump. Every war criminal president before him was more or less celebrated and are still admired by the public. They'll still call themselves good Christians. That level of cognitive dissonance is going to push the level of moral failure to its limits until it's going to start affecting themselves. But, then, you can't put the genie back in the bottle anymore.

I see that there's no apprehension of "Prevention is better than cure". You cannot wave away problems because they're only going to return worse than before.

There's also demeaning people who see the atrocities for what they are and want to create awareness so they can minimize it. But are shamed for it.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 hours ago

I just mean that I can understand where it comes from when someone is already close to their breaking point, and I think most people are about there. They're not consciously deciding to bury their heads, because making a decision requires too much inspection to actually ignore it. Often when I was beaten down it's like my mind selectively blocked out information as a means of protecting me, but I remained in denial about that until I started really getting out of the hole. I'm not sure I'd equate them to Trump supporters in a broader scope, but I do think the lack of inquiry here is not too different from Trump supporters.

I also think that with more animosity towards regular citizens, the more the conversation shifts from the powerful to the powerless. The impact of one citizen changing their mind is wholely insignificant compared to what a politician changing course would do.

I see that there's no apprehension of "Prevention is better than cure". You cannot wave away problems because they're only going to return worse than before.

I'm not smart enough to piece together what you're saying here. Prevention or cure for what? What does prevention look like? Why should we be apprehensive, it sounds like a reasonable statement?

There's also demeaning people who see the atrocities for what they are and want to create awareness so they can minimize it. But are shamed for it.

I do feel this point and I'll admit I've had many infuriating interactions. Now I try to just ignore until I cool down, because once I do it's like this asshole isn't worth that much thought. I have a limited amount of time to be angry, that's better spent on the people who actually could make a meaningful difference by taking a stand.

[–] darthelmet@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

It's different for different people. At the end of the day, all the status quo needs to continue is a lack of effective organized resistance, not full support.

That said, from some anecdotal experience: Some of them just don't care. Politics comes up with my parents a lot. They're Democrats, but if you talk to them long enough, you realize they're just functionally Republicans who are embarrassed by the aesthetics of the GOP. The problems they've had with people like Trump or Bush have essentially nothing to do with their awful policies and more to do with them looking stupid. They pretty much unquestionably support US imperialism and are depressingly Zionist. Sometimes this seems like it's down to a lack of historical knowledge, but honestly if you push them on it enough you eventually break out of the loop of America always being the good guy to just a basic "might makes right" and "it's us vs them" mentality which you'd normally associate with conservatives.

For example, when I've spoken to my Dad about Iran, his position ultimately boiled down to "They're the bad guys. Trump should be attacking them, he's just doing it in a stupid way that isn't working." The fact that the US isn't merely not waging an effective war, but actively committing war crimes like bombing schools? Unimportant. The fact that we only have the current Iranian government because of previous US meddling? "That was so long ago." The fact that the last time they were told a country we were targeting had WMDs, it was a lie? Doesn't even register. When he said someone should do something about them having nukes, I asked if someone should do something about the US since we have the most nukes and he said something like "I'd like to see them try." The fact that we are currently allied with a literal monarchy in the region? /shrug. When the conversation drifted briefly to Vietnam, he said that either we shouldn't have gotten involved or we should have done even more. We just didn't try hard enough to win... There are still children being born in Vietnam with birth defects due to agent orange. But yeah, we totally didn't inflict enough violence on them.

To the extent that either of them does take an interest in history, it is almost solely through the lens of documentaries glazing the "great men" of our history while ignoring or downplaying their atrocities.

I think my analysis of their kind of politics is that they have enough shame to maintain their ignorance in order to have cover for supporting the things they actually want. You push that ignorance hard enough and the "freedom and democracy" mask slips off to reveal what amounts to little more than support for white supremacy and fascism as long as it doesn't affect them or make them look bad.

I'm sure there are others that are simply ignorant and could be convinced with enough evidence. I suppose I was one of them. How could I not be? I grew up with the propaganda version of American history where we were the good guys, except for the times when we weren't, but those are in the past and we're better now. It wasn't until near the end of HS that I started getting a more nuanced view of history and once I understood that my politics weren't actually aligned with my values, I changed. But even then, the effects of the propaganda are so strong that even today, knowing what I know, I just don't get the visceral reaction to these past atrocities that they deserve. I know they're wrong, I just am so removed from them that it's hard to fully empathize beyond a conscious, intellectual level.

There may be more types, but those are my primary experiences. People who are either currently misinformed or people who actively delude themselves so they don't look like or believe themselves to be similar to the vulgar hicks they view the Republicans as.

EDIT: I also always want to caution against equating the voters with the people at large. The vast majority of the country doesn't vote. Only some of that is apathetic people. A lot of people are pushed out by deliberate voter suppression tactics. I'd wager that those voters are way more likely to be anti-imperialists, but they don't get represented by the ballots and media.

The US didn't just magically turn out this way because everyone wanted it. From the very founding of the country, the system of government that was set up was explicitly designed to limit the influence of popular opinion. You've definitely learned about this in school, but it was probably framed to you in terms of "Not letting a majority oppress a minority" without explaining that the "minorities" the founders wanted to protect were white, protestant, land owning men who then turned around and oppressed all the real minorities.

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[–] random_character_a@lemmy.world 41 points 3 days ago (2 children)

US has two party system. You either vote for the seemingly conservative corporate puppet war criminal in camp A, or vote for the seemingly liberal corporate puppet war criminal in camp B.

[–] Homo_Erectus@lemmy.zip 26 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Time to vote. Here are your options

[–] NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

It's not my fault. I voted for Kodos.

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[–] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 30 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I mean it's the same thing when you confront Republicans about it. Both parties have supporters who just want to support that party, and any logic against that gets them in defense mode

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Sounds like you’ve built yourself quite the straw man.

[–] fta@lemmy.zip 14 points 2 days ago

Hm.

Most people my age support Democrats only in opposition to the current admin.

Almost everyone I know that’s my age fucking hates the democrats though.

But people I talk that are my parents age are more pro Democrat (or MAGA, for that matter).

Just a different experience, maybe I live in a more progressive area.

Sounds fucking frustrating.

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