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Uh the more I scroll these commemts, the more and more am I identifying with that girl, which is dang convenient too actually~
I'm lucky to have met my perverted wife on a day I was feeling brave!
When you are German and they read you the ORIGINAL Grim tales at bedtime, you know what's up sooner than you'd wish.
I'm pretty sure the grimm tales are the sanitized stories. They're written versions of oral tradition.
I heard that as well. Some say that the "fancy city folks" as which the Grimm brothers were perceived got an already watered down version of the real thing.
Compared to American adaptations such as Cinderella, the written Grimm version is the wild one, though.
The grimms are pretty sanitised, who read the version where the prince raped sleeping beauty?
what... what happened to the wolf?
She ain't called the red riding hood for nothin'
He met a predator in the woods
Many self-declared "perverted men" think doggy-style is bdsm
bdsm
If the d and s stand for doggy style what do the b and m stand for?
body-positive discussions, doggy style, sexy massages
bad doggy style man
Men have unique insecurities that are a result of socital expectations. We gaslight ourselves into conforming to a certain expected behavior. Many, if not most cishet men are afraid to explore their sexuality beyond that which is considered the heteronormative standard. Men are victims of the patriarchy as is everyone else.
And the corrollary to that, that even less people want to talk about, is that straight, traditional cis men and women will then mock and shame men who actually do try think outside the box.
So, many men are victims of patriarchy, and many women are perpetrators of patriarchy.
Then you get to the incredibly confusing 'now', where many women will claim to be a feminist, yet will also mock and shame men who do not conform to stereotypical cishet male lifestyle/relationship norms.
Actual feminism vs Pop feminism.
Actual feminism seeks to identify and challenge and critique societal gender roles and norms. All societal gender roles and norms.
Pop feminism is basically psuedo (meaning 'impostor' or 'fake') feminism, that pretty much just boils down to misandry, using a set of buzzwords and terms basically bastardized from actual feminism.
no joke i used to be one of those dudes that thought i could keep going and never get tired until i met a woman one day that wore my ass out i think i was asleep for like 14 hours lmao shit was fucking wild
Being vanilla as I am feels like being one of those hipster guys that eats exclusively organic and buys only farmers market food
so… good?
Entirely anecodotal but:
Nearly every woman I've met/dated/etc that's described themself as a pervert or a freak or extremely kinky, that's a significant element of their personality?
They're the absolute most boring, plain and lazy in the bedroom, and they also tend to have fairly to extremely serious mental/personality disorders/problems.
Conversely, not all, but far far more of the ones that do not describe themselves as that?
They are actually quite often the most active and creative and willing to try new things, actually reciprocate effort in the bedroom.
Absolutely no clue if this is any kind of representative sample, but it is my experience.
The literal only exception to at least the first half of this was the actually diagnosed nymphomaniac, who was, other than that, a rather meek and reserved person, 95% of the time.
Also I guess for the record, I don't consider myself 'perverted', just sex positive and I guess kinkier than your average ~~bear~~ twink.
This isn’t limited to sexual preferences, though. That’s just...peacocking, bragging because they want you to like them. People who like something for clout are often excessive in their bragging about it. The people who actually like a thing, sexual or otherwise, tend to integrate it and just enjoy that thing for themselves.
Unless you’re autistic, then everyone gets to know about it. But that’s noticeable too.
The difference is between saying, “I’m a freak in bed,” and “Let me tell you about this one super-niche part of the rope-play community and how it’s actually more of an art form than anything sexual.”
Well see thats the thing.
I am autistic.
Autistic people tend to only info dump when its either a very low stakes, close to anonymous environment... or, when they actually really really trust or admire someone. In the latter case, the infodumping itself is a sign that they basically like you, are comfortable with you.
To me, normies that peacock most or all of their personality... they just think their masks are themselves. They seem to barely even be aware of what they are doing.
Whats actually happening is that really, only the mask actually exists.
Theres not very much underneath, beyond basically the mindset of an immature child/teenager.
And that kind of a person, frankly, is so mentally childlike, that at least to me, I can't be turned on by or sexually attracted to that... they're just a child in an adult body. They have too little self awareness and self understanding for me to view them as a responsible adult capable of giving informed consent.
I get you.
The day you realize that you're more than your mask can be earth-shattering. I still remember mine, and it took me another decade to start learning who I was behind it.
It's like someone waking up from the matrix and you can't date someone who's still plugged in.
A great case of those who think they are something only do so because they don't realize how deep the rabbit hole goes.
Dunning Kruger of personality traits is very real.
They’re the absolute most boring, plain and lazy in the bedroom, and they also tend to have fairly to extremely serious mental/personality disorders/problems.
I encountered a woman once that talked about how freaky she was in bed, in a way that openly encouraged investigation.
Investigation commenced.
Turns out her idea of bein freaky was Doggy Style.
It's the laziness that's the worst. Someone not putting any effort in is insulting.
The dead fish position.
Catholic high girls ARE trouble.
Also the dudes who say " i'm can fuck all day, everyday!!", then they meet a woman who can actually fuck all day. They will be looking like the Creepshow ghoul by weeks end.
There's an entire meme category about it
My guess: A lot of "Perverted" men think they are perverted because all the girls they've talked to so far have gone "eeeew" when they mention anything like a blowjob.
They have then concluded that they must be perverted for wanting to try such depravities.