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I've noticed that there seems to be an emphasis on being extremely serious at all times, as if every single comment is a PhD dissertation being evaluated or something. There's like this weird, subtle one upmanship about every little thing and a lot of people are very nitpicky and judgmental. It kind of takes the fun out of being on here, TBH. Or am I the only one experiencing this?

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[–] renrenPDX@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago

Not any more than how Reddit was.

[–] AstroLightz@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

No, but I've seen a lot of pessimism in a few communities, even on positive posts.

[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 5 points 3 days ago

not really, to me it seems much friendlier than most online spaces these days

[–] nanometer1625@thelemmy.club 4 points 2 days ago

I disagree. This site is not hostile or insular at all. Also, it's not Lemmy, it's The Lemmy Club.

(/s please have a pleasant day)

[–] TryingToBeGood@reddthat.com 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

go to the cats community. It's nice there.

[–] CallMeAl@piefed.world 6 points 3 days ago (35 children)

I don't experience that in the comms I frequent. Do you have an example thread?

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[–] flamingleg@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 days ago

people take gay reddit too serious man

[–] davetortoise@reddthat.com 1 points 2 days ago

Eh. Yeah. But maybe that's just what a lot of people are like on the internet. I'd say a lot of social media sites used to be the same, before they were swamped with AI to the point of unusability.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 4 points 3 days ago

maybe sometimes. some great folk on here to. block if you need to.

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