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Original question by @zachimusprime44@lemmy.world

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[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 1 points 41 minutes ago

The United States government and the United States citizens.

Growing up I was taught about all these checks and balances. How the government is slow and that's good because it makes sure people get what they really want. Come to find out in just one presidential term, this one guy just executes executive orders left and right and just gets things done.

I thought U.S citizens would vote in their best interests but they would glady vote for a facist who's against their best wishes.

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 hour ago
[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Republicans. When I was a child, slogans like “fiscally responsible”, “family values”, “smaller government “ sounded like good things. Republicans always claimed the moral high ground. But they’ve spent my entire adult life proving it as manipulative bullshit for personal greed and power, holding themselves above the law, the worst in humanity, rising to our current flirt with fascism.

[–] zlatiah@lemmy.world 0 points 21 minutes ago

The worshipping of the self-made man and entrepreneurship in popular American culture

I think I was just too young and fashionable, maybe I was one of those guys that saw themselves as a "temporarily embarrassed billionaire"... then got old enough to see through the nonsense

[–] TinyLittlePuni@lemmy.world 11 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Google. It was once a good search engine. Now I find myself getting only the most irrelevant results based on my keywords and more often than not an advanced search turns up nothing of value

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 3 hours ago

It went downhill when they got rid of search within results, I don't know why they did that

[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 11 points 7 hours ago

Elon. Turns out he was always a conman and liar.

[–] Oaksey@lemmy.world 28 points 9 hours ago

Google. Do no evil

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 20 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Nintendo.

Things got worse once Bowser got ahold of the American castle.

The fun dissolved with Iwata and Reggie gone.

The line to far for me was their retroactive bs patents used to attack Palworld. It's one thing to be strict on your own systems, but another to do it to others. 80s Nintendo is back and possibly worse than before.

[–] TonyOstrich@lemmy.world 14 points 10 hours ago

It wasn't Bowser, it was the finance guys that were placed at the head of the company after Satoru Iwata's death.

[–] leftzero@lemmynsfw.com 12 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Humanity.

Hey, I was a fucking kid, OK. I eventually learnt.

[–] Ideonek@lemm.ee 16 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Neil Gaiman. He poisoned so much...

[–] biber@feddit.org 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Hu? Oh No, do I want to know?

[–] Ideonek@lemm.ee 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[–] biber@feddit.org 3 points 4 hours ago

:( - I'm super sorry for the women. Thanks

[–] Tramort@programming.dev 10 points 10 hours ago
[–] Asfalttikyntaja@sopuli.xyz 31 points 14 hours ago (1 children)
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

A butterfly complaining about change is low key really funny

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 1 points 11 minutes ago

Haha good point

[–] rothaine@lemm.ee 60 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Jk Rowling. She was (I think) the only billionaire to ever debillonaire themselves without dying (i.e., she donated so much wealth to charity that she was no longer a billionaire).

But then she decided to dedicate herself to making trans people's lives miserable...

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I'm curious which charities she was donating to before she turned into a massive cunt. Cause all she donates to now are hate groups.

[–] rothaine@lemm.ee 6 points 2 hours ago

Good question, I never actually looked into it. According to her Wikipedia page:

She established the Volant Charitable Trust in 2000, and co-founded the charity Lumos in 2005. Rowling's philanthropy centres on medical causes and supporting at-risk women and children. In 2025, Forbes estimated that Rowling's charitable giving exceeded US$200 million. She has also donated to Britain's Labour Party, and opposed Scottish independence and Brexit.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._K._Rowling

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[–] bmpvy@feddit.org 10 points 14 hours ago

Parents (my own)

[–] bonn2@lemmy.zip 35 points 18 hours ago

A certain elongated muskrat comes to mind. I love space so the thought of a reusable rocket to make space affordable was awesome. I also believe that electric cars are the future, and tesla did make pretty good charging standard and help to "prove" the concept. But now I just hope he somehow winds up dirt poor, and irrelevant. Just oh, my, god

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 15 points 15 hours ago
[–] Ioughttamow@fedia.io 53 points 20 hours ago

Many moons ago I thought Israel was just defending itself. For two decades now I’ve come to believe they are the problem, and are now committing wanton genocide

[–] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 97 points 22 hours ago (3 children)

Airbnb. I used to think they were a perfect business. Saw a gap in the market, created a decent product, invested in their users (back in the day they would even send a photographer to take good photos of your property).
Unfortunately the consequences turned out to be awful.

[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 34 points 18 hours ago

AirBNB would work better if the owner was required to live in the property 160 days out of the year. Where it went wrong was in letting corporations buy up housing and use it to skirt hotel taxes and regulation.

[–] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 46 points 21 hours ago

AirBnB is almost directly responsible for the surge of housing prices in my local town, and they should die in a fire.

[–] meep_launcher@lemm.ee 33 points 21 hours ago

🌈.°`E N S H I T I F I C A T I O N'°. 🌈

[–] soupguy@lemmy.world 110 points 23 hours ago (3 children)
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[–] Fletcher@lemmy.today 50 points 21 hours ago

I would have to say organized religion. I grew up in a pretty strict christian home, but as I grew older I began to see how much of what I had been told was just patently false and designed to manipulate and control. I have done a lot (decades worth) of studying and reading and I'm confident that the conclusions I have arrived at are correct. Of course, your mileage may vary.

[–] Deflated0ne@lemmy.world 93 points 23 hours ago (4 children)

Institutions. Courts. Media. Religion. Law Enforcement. Politicians.

The institutions are captured. The courts, media, and politicians are corrupt. Bought and paid for. Law Enforcement are just class traitors. The enforcement arm of Capital. Protecting the interests of the ruling class and taking a bludgeon to the people. Religion is a tool of control. Used to control the ignorant and guide their ire.

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[–] atro_city@fedia.io 47 points 22 hours ago (3 children)

The US. Believed in the "American Dream", but the more I learned about the country, the more I grew to dislike it. It's all a facade.

And I used to have a lot of respect for old people, but that also changed. They are just as flawed as the rest of us.

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[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 61 points 23 hours ago (6 children)

Apple, and a number of the other big tech companies as well. Shit used to be easy to use, repair, customize to your liking, etc.

Now they don't want you to be able to fix a damn thing, plus all too many services and features and stuff have gone to the subscription model.

Fuck all with that, give us our stuff back and let us just use what we paid for.

Right To Repair!

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[–] MudMan@fedia.io 41 points 22 hours ago (4 children)

The Internet. Social media in particular.

I used to be a "information wants to be free" pure techno-optimist who thought the availability of data at all times would immediately cause a massive boost in awareness, education and intelligence worldwide.

I was super wrong. It was all a mistake and it should be burnt to the ground. Yes, including this place.

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Ive been crashing out thinking about the internet. Its so beautiful in its ideas and so simple in its core design but its grown into something truely horrible. I love the internet and I spend time in the out rim of the internet still finding websites and meeting anonymous stangers but thats dying and the cancerous megalopolis in the centre is thriving and no one seems to care.

Why do 100s of millions of people still use Facebook that site has been outted as a psychological lab countless times. Yet people wre perfectly fine spending their time there.

[–] MudMan@fedia.io 1 points 4 hours ago

Because people don't think about anything that way. Individual action won't make large scale changes.

That isn't news, either. We just happen to also suck to find ways around that problem, in general.

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