Tender

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[–] Tender@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

Tks for sharing I mean yeah I have bad social skills which can't make my chances of getting into a deep relationship lower than it already is! But keep trying i created some accounts on some social media with wide specific communities that I can help me find people with same interests. I'm trying hard. I wish for both of us the best.

[–] Tender@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

No actually i don't have co workers. Cuz I work from home... I'm a freelancer.

[–] Tender@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks you. I'll try my best

[–] Tender@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Thanks for sharing, I used to enjoy loneliness cuz i hate crowds and talking a lot I'm very silent person. But now i feel the urge to be loved or at least important to someone. If I just felt bored or just wanna talk a bit there is no one. So it's too much to be loneliness. I work a lot to keep myself busy, I love watching horror movies, I read historical novels, I read hundreds of manga panels online daily, I pick some excuse to go to the city (cuz I live in the country side) to walk in a park or just hangout but i still feel lonely even outside the house, walking alone and watching people laughing with their friends or a couple holding each other's hands while I'm alone like someone lost. with all of this I can't forget or foul myself all the time, loneliness has become like a demon hunting me all the time. I love cats! I wanna have a pet so bad but I'm still living with my family and they don't want pets inside the house, specifically my father. So...yeah my situation is extra complicated. But thank you so much again for your comment and advices.

[–] Tender@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks for sharing, yeah many people have told me that IBS requires a doet to deal with it guess i should learn what food irritates it, and I'll try that cold showering for sure. When it comes to making friends to escape loneliness that's the hardest part for me but I'll keep trying... Tks again ❤️

 

Hi everyone! This will be a bit long sorry.

First, Thank god for lemmy, I can finally share this. f**k reddit.

So... I'm an extremely introverted person, i don't have friends irl nor online. I've been fighting with ADHD since ever and didn't even know! I discovered that I have this disorder just a year ago. I knew that i have IBS aka irritable bowel syndrome. I can’t feel hungry becuz of it at all but It makes me very emotional and depressed. Adding ibs to adhd to loneliness is something only people who are dealing with knows how it feels, lately after falling in college and dropping out and feeling that my life is destroyed. My condition worsened, im fought to save myself and I managed to gain a skill and I'm working as freelancer. But loneliness is still there. I try to be patient i try to stop the tears but i can't take it anymore i cry a lot and i feel sometimes like my chest is crashing. Pls people like me what do you guys do in this situation? Plz help with whatever you know is helpful. I'll very appreciate it.

[–] Tender@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 6 months ago

Oh okay tks for the advice!!

[–] Tender@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 months ago

Oh okay that's good thank you

[–] Tender@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 months ago

I'll check out. Chokran!!

[–] Tender@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 months ago

The last option's specs seems the best to run adobe apps thanks!!!

 

I've already posted this on a forum on pcpartpicker but no one replyed;

hello everyone tks for clicking on my post. so i have a laptop I've using for 2years now just watching learning video editing by watching tutorials on it and i found out that video editing apps are very demanding specially adobe apps.. my dell latitude 5590 re-brushed i bought for 3000 Moroccan DH (around 300$) ( i5 8th gen / 8gb ram / intel UHD graphics 620) can't run these apps.. so i find myself obligated to build a PC. but i have a low budget so I'm gonna need to buy re-brushed parts. I'm new to this.. I'm asking for your help guys!!

I just wanna build a PC that can run premiere and after effects smoothly for video editing at 1080p I don't edit at 4k so i don't need a super build.

Note: the budget below is just for the PC not the Peripherals too.

  • Budget: 400$ - 600$
  • Location: Morocco
  • Use : video editing (premiere and after effects).
  • Peripherals required (monitor, keyboard/mouse, etc): since it's my first build i need everything the mouse, the keyboard, and the monitor.
  • Operating System required: windows 11 pro.

I want in advance to thank everyone in this forum who give his time in effort to help nobs like me! much respect for you guys!