Voidian
Because it's usually only incels that think this is the type of conversation anyone wants to have. Touch grass.
You’re right, predators exist, and ignoring that is dangerous. But coercive systems don’t solve the root problem; they just move it around. Prisons don’t stop abuse, they concentrate it. Cops don’t end corruption, they institutionalize it. The illusion is that punishment equals justice, when really, it just perpetuates the cycle of suffering: hurt people hurt people, and systems that rely on domination will always produce more of both.
I'm not saying there shouldn't be consequences. It’s consequences without hate and domination. A world where harm is met with accountability and prevention at the root level, not exile and fear of punishment. The question shouldn't be "How do we punish?" but "How did we fail this person, and how do we stop failing each other?" That’s not softness. That’s seeing through the delusion of separation, the idea that "monsters" are a different species, not products of the same broken systems we all inherit. It's the admission that IF NOT FOR THE CIRCUMSTANCES OF YOUR GENETIC MAKEUP AND YOUR ENVIRONMENT, you would be exactly as dangerous and harmful. True safety doesn’t come from bigger cages. It comes from communities that refuse to abandon their own, even the difficult ones.
And yes there are cases where the only answer is to keep someone harmful separate from the rest but it's possible to do that out of love and care towards those that they would harm, NOT out of hate towards them as a demonized "other". I'm talking about being pre-emptive, which requires ability for people to have open discourse. It requires the ability to rationally look at horrible behavior and address the causes.
Aannndddd… yeah. The "round and round" is what happens when we mistake performative rebellion for actual change. Most of us know the system’s broken, but we’d rather rage at the symptoms than admit we’re part of the pattern. You’re dead right about the "physician, heal thyself" bit, except nobody wants to do the boring work of actually examining why they crave control, whether it’s over a Lemmy community or a state. Easier to just slap a label on the ‘enemy’ and call it a day.
True rebellion against fascism starts with the self.
I really, really hope that having rules against molesting kids aren't the only thing keeping you from doing it.
It's a misunderstanding of anarchy to equate it with either total chaos or total control. True anarchism is about opposing coercive authority, not creating a new, rigid authority that dictates what discourse is acceptable.
You can absolutely oppose bigotry and harm (which are coercive actions) without resorting to silencing anyone who doesn't conform to a specific ideological viewpoint. Genuine community defense is about voluntary association and preventing harassment, not about restricting the exchange of ideas.
By my experience, and most of my friends experience (as heavy smokers): the alcohol tends to override the weed very easily so it kinda feels like wasting the bud if you're getting drunk at the same time. If you smoke and only drink a little, the weed overpowers the alcohol.
There is however a golden sweet spot where the alcohol enhances the weed, making the psychedelic effects slightly more noticable and it does feel quite nice and chill. But it doesn't last for long and I've never been able to intentionally induce it. Sometimes happens when I've gotten a tiny bit drunk and am starting to sober up, and then smoke weed. Like after drinking a bit while out with mates, getting home, feeling slightly buzzed but not really drunk and then chill, hydrate and smoke. But again, never managed to get it to happen on purpose.