WhoIsTheDrizzle

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[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

This is what I've done; I founded an adult rec sports league a few years ago that's burgeoned into a thriving community. It's about half queer, we have a large group that hangs out after games, regular social events, developing leadership board, active Discord. We've raised over $10,000 for charities and member medical bills. (America is really sad) It's really a bright spot in a lot of our lives right now. As things get worse, we now have a community to fall back on and support one another.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Sorry, I should have said living wage. Like what an actual minimum wage should be, calculated based on the average cost of basic necessities. (Food, housing etc...) With geography included. Pretty basic stuff. Like how the minimum wage in CA is 16.50$? Of course some servers would be upset - if you're valet or a server at a fine dining restaurant you're making significantly more than a server at a working class chain for doing essentially the same job. That's dumb. Also, I'd posit there are a lot more people against tips than for tips, which makes legislation a possibility.

How/why would inflation be out of control? The cooks don't get tips, the managers don't get tips, the dishwashers don't get tips. They're paid a wage. Some restaurants in the US already do this. I have one near me.

I do know what the server's wage is where I live - It's $2.83/hour, with a maximum tip cover of $4.42 to bring to minimum wage, which isn't even close to a liveable wage, since minimum wage hasn't been adjusted since '09 and it was too low then. Plus they have no health insurance or other benefits (average cost is $9k for solo/$25k for families).

I'm not inclined to tip when I visit Spain, Portugal, Hungary, Switzerland, Denmark etc... because their servers make liveable wages and they have healthcare and other benefits provided by their governments.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I'm an American and I hate tipping culture. I don't believe your solution to getting rid of tipping culture is viable. I think we collectively as a culture would need to agree not to tip, which isn't going to happen. A much easier way would be through legislation and forcing employers to pay fair wages. I don't think customers would be inclined to tip someone making a fair wage. If this thread and hundreds like them on Lemmy and Reddit are any indication, people are generally guilted into tipping because wait staff makes $2/hour or whatever in the states.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago (4 children)

I disagree. You'd have to organize a national movement with a majority of the relevant population onboard. Can't even get people to vote. Good luck.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 10 points 4 months ago

Critical thinking is important, y'all.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

You're right, unfortunately. That's a reality in some rural areas. My experience does come from a city with options, and I'm judging those folks. One positive is that so many things can be delivered now, which helps to supplement the absence of local businesses put under by Walmart, and can even create more local businesses. While you may not have the option with certain medications, spending 30% less there will make a difference.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

You hit the nail on the head; principles are important and a measurement of your character. I understand that ignorance plays into it as well - I'm sure I support some crappy companies inadvertently. If we all tried our best however, there'd be less kowtowing to bigotry, fascism and exploitation of vulnerable people.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 9 points 4 months ago (5 children)

I didn't used to, but I'm getting more judgemental as time goes on. I'm an ally and involved in LGBTQIA orgs and I can't tell you how many gay friends and acquaintances I have that still go to Chick-fil-A and Walmart. I'm harsher with those two, but now, I'll speak out against folks going to Target as well. Even without Target, Walmart and Amazon, I still have no trouble buying anything I need without inconvenience. The only language large corporations speak is money and if you can't even boycott a company that makes mid fast food that's spending money to take away your rights, it seems pathetic to me.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

That is awful. Didn't realize there was a time limit on charge backs.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 11 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Just do a charge back on your credit card.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (11 children)

At least not vote for cabinet picks.

[–] WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

Unfortunately the people he is trying to convince are too stupid to think critically or even think logically about the root cause of the issue. He can mask his own incompetence through personal attacks and the idiotic brain-washed base will eat it up, one clip at a time.

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