XiELEd

joined 2 years ago
[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Mundane things like helping someone carry their groceries from one vehicle to another when we're going down on the same stop. When we're boarded in the same vehicle they enthusiastically pay for my fare.

I tend to experience it more when I'm wearing business casual.

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

What a pretty DuBb IdOT!

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I got tangible perks for wearing certain clothes and helping people in them. It seems like when you dress a bit more formally, people are more likely to think you're going out of your way to help them, and you're more likely to get compensated. That mentality kinda sucks because if you squint a bit, there's a social class bias in play. And I remember a little factoid where someone found out you get scammed less at the dentist if you wear a suit vs if you wear something like a hoodie.

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Both, but it's less about looking good or acceptable to others, it's more about displaying a specific image really.

 

Some stupid meme will appear in my head while I'm in public and a stupid grin will force itself into my face and obviously I don't want people to look at me and think I'm crazy, or worse ask what I'm laughing about and the only thing that was on my mind was "born to shit, forced to wipe".