bearboiblake

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[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

thanks for your comment, i completely understand your perspective, but, you know, they say exactly the same kinda stuff about the people that they hate. it makes me uncomfortable seeing MAGA reflected in their enemies

something something gaze into the abyss something

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

i totally get that! we can't all be perfect all the time, and i totally get that for some people they've just been hurt too much to ever have a shred of kindness or sympathy towards the people who are at least partially responsible for that pain

i just wish that people could be a bit less hateful, at least. reading the comments in this thread is honestly quite scary. i don't like seeing just... pure hate, from people i would like to be allies with. it reminds me of the hate right-wingers have tbh

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 2 points 1 year ago (5 children)

hell yeah, great message, thanks for writing it up!

you should copy and paste it somewhere else so more people see it

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

don't get me wrong - fuck that guy, he had a choice, and he chose the more harmful option.

but i mean, let's be real, the guy got scammed/tricked by republicans into voting against his own interests, and now has to deal with that realization, plus the stress of losing his job, plus also now he has to listen to people saying "i told you so!"

there are two paths from there - admitting he was wrong, and doubling down. it's hard to admit when you're wrong, but it's much easier when people are understanding and compassionate, and much much harder when people are making fun of your misfortune and having a "told ya so" victory lap

it's really tempting to give in to the urge to clown on these people for bringing this shit on themselves, but these are the moments where a bit of compassion can change the world.

by all means, though, if it's not for you, that's totally understandable, i just hope you can kinda see where i'm coming from, even if you don't agree

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago

thank you! i try my best, but i don't always succeed!

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 2 points 1 year ago (17 children)

i totally get what you mean, and of course i would never ever push anyone into it. i just read some kinda dark comments in this thread and i wished that people would be a little more compassionate

i know they don't deserve it, really - and i totally get how you can think of it as "aiding the enemy" or something.

but i genuinely believe that we can reduce harm just by being a bit more compassionate, a bit more patient, and a bit less aggressive

fascists believe that the world is polarized into "us" and "them", and they believe that "them" would stop at nothing to destroy them.

just a simple act of compassion can show them that there are choices beyond destruction

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

i totally get that, i really do. and if you don't think it's right for you, i fully respect that choice, and besides, some of us still need to be the "stick" so that the "carrot" gets put into perspective!

thanks for your reply! <3

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 3 points 1 year ago (7 children)

honestly, you never know - anyone can be brainwashed and radicalized, it's not just something that happens to stupid people

i went through a little alt-right phase when i was younger, now i'm an anarchist i want to go back in time and kick my own ass.

people sometimes take strange, winding journeys to get where they're going!

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

first of all, don't put too much pressure on yourself, it's really tough to hold back sometimes. if you can't hold it back, that's okay! sometimes, people do need to be told when they're being cunts sometimes.

but what does help me a bit is really going all-in on the "kill with kindness" thing, really just turning on all the southern charm and hokum. i find playing that character to be quite funny, so it feels less like i'm being taken for a ride, it's more like i have a private joke.

also, i think it really helps to find some common ground, even for some of the worst people imaginable, they'll usually say at least something you agree with, even if it's something silly, like you both like the same video game - i always start with the common ground, people are way more receptive when you open with "yes, i agree with you, and...", that's honestly been really effective for me.

if you look through my history you'll find plenty of evidence of me not taking my own advice. but i'm trying, and i'm trying to bring others with me

i don't think we all need to be perfect, if we can all just try a little bit

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

i've put way more thought into it than you have, considering you were calling me a fascist before and now you're ridiculing me for being an anarchist

if you can describe fascism and anarchism in your own words i'll delete my account

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago (5 children)

of course there would, there would be approximately 8 billion people still alive

there would be no power vacuum because there would be no power - all forms of power that might have been siezed in a power struggle would have been dissolved

the result would be a classless, moneyless, stateless society. Each of us would only need to work approximately 10 hours per day or so to ensure that everyone in the world has all of their needs met and a decent standard of living.

the society we currently have is based on slavery, exploitation, murder and theft. i'm not saying that i have a perfect solution, but we need to abolish capitalism at the very least, or fascism will remain inevitable

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