toastus

I had hoped for an honest conversation.

This is not that.
I am not interested in defending the strawman you made out of my short comment.

Why does it have to matter?

But no, I am not.

Just so you know, I am not one of the downvotes, but I still strongly disagree with your comment and it rubbed me the wrong way.

The asking for directions "to stay away" is a running joke that (I think) originated in "It's always sunny in Philadelphia" and neither in the show, nor at any other point does this running joke make fun of the victims, it specifically makes fun of the hypocrisy of the statements.

The late sex workers are not the butt of the joke and so I strongly believe that your disgust is misplaced.

Don't know about the rest of Europe, but in Germany you cannot just choose freely what happens to your remains.

They must be handled by an undertaker and there are laws about how and where remains can be buried.
I think there are discussions to loosen some of those restrictions to maybe allow for remains to get worked into trinkets or jewelery and stuff, but I don't really know how far along those discussions are.

It is basically unheard of to have the ashes of a loved one in an urn at home, like you see in movies.

There actually are even laws for the remains of pets, but I think they are not really enforced and most pet owners that I know don't care and bury their pets somewhere private.
We surely didn't give away the remains of our family dog.
She sleeps in the shade of a nice big bush now.

Thanks for the nice reply.

I am sorry I worded my comment so harshly, it was not my finest moment.
I was agitated from another thing in my life and lashed out randomly, I am sorry.

I had since deleted it and hoped it was never seen.

I am very much with you on the topic at hand, blood does not necessarily make great families and great families can be made without blood relations.