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Sorry I don't mean to come off entitled. It's not a very constructive community though that's unfortunate haha.
You need guidance in your presentation style, you have managed to completely alienate your potential users in one single post.
No one owes you anything. No one asked you to spend time and money on a project. Calling folks "ungrateful" while trying to attract them to your project is weird.
It was a light hearted plea. I hope people can see past my lack of style and I don't mean to offend you. I was surprised at all the negativitiy.