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If anything you're the one being obtuse and saying your way is better and that people must adapt to your way. Downvotes are the default behaviour of the software and the "reddit-like" experience of Lemmy
If better means "more inclusive," then yes. It's better. Did I say to stop downvoting? No. Did I tell people to abandon their downvoting-enabled instances? No (though have a look and see how I've been told multiple times to leave mine).
Dunno why people are hellbent on excluding people who don't want optional downvotes when non-optional reporting exists.
But do go on about how I'm excluding the poor instances with downvotes by recommending an inclusive action that they also benefit from.