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Women are being abandoned by their partners on hiking trails. What’s behind ‘alpine divorce’?
(www.theguardian.com)
this post was submitted on 17 Mar 2026
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This is so fucking sexist.
Hey everyone, women are just as capable of surviving in the mountains as men!
There's some safety and ethical rules in the mountains. You don't leave your hiking/climbing partner unless you both agree it's fine. Gender of this partner doesn't matter. Guy leaving another guy is equally bad as guy leaving a woman. Women are not inherently more prone to dying in the mountains than men. The fact that everyone treats this as someone abandoning a helpless person is infuriating. It's shitty behavior but it would be equally shitty if this guy left his male friend or if she left him. It's 2026, this is fairly progressive space and still everyone looks at with "women need protecting" mindset. It's mind boggling.
When I see women in the mountains I don't think to myself "oh my god, they are here without supervision? hope they will be fine!". Am I the only one?
The difference being, it's your fucking partner, and it's guys doing it. No sexism here, just men being shitty partners. Shame them and move on instead of deflecting.
Yes, shitty men are shitty partners. Why is being shitty in the mountains different than being shitty anywhere else? All this is assuming that when a couple goes into the mountains men is responsible for women. Which is sexist. Both are adults, both can take care of themselves.
because cultural sexism. that's why. innocent women must be protected from evil horrible men at all costs!
i bet if this story was about a gay couple you'd have a wildly different set of comments on here. and it would also be different about a lesbian couple.
but since it's hetereosexual you have everyone projecting their sexism and relationship violence fears and generalizing it into some epidemic.
shitty people are shitty to each other, no matter the relationship. it has little to do with the sex of the people involved.
the truth of the story is probably far more complex and nuanced than is being told, but that would get in the way of the simplified narrative of an innocent woman being abused and neglected by a horrible man, onto which people can morally condemn and project how they'd never do that.
I bet if you looked at the numbers, it happens to ciswomen from cismen a statistically large amount of the time. Like at least three times higher than the others per capita. I mean, that wouldn't be particularly surprising to me because queer couples tend to have different issues, but I am gonna take a wild shot in the dark and say that you have maybe one queer friend and thus know very little about the relationship dynamics.
I think if your problem is that women are complaining about men is sexist, then you are preemptively trying to shield shitty partner behavior when it's done by men. To me, that reeks of someone that thinks it's okay to be abusive to women, which is sort of a shitty person indicator, which, as you indicated, is because you are shitty to others.