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‘I don’t date at all now’: one woman’s journey into the darkest corners of the manosphere
(www.theguardian.com)
this post was submitted on 30 Apr 2025
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Guys seem to like going into a game together and fighting against overwhelming odds, working together to shoot down the enemy. Even if they "die" several times.
Maybe it would be interesting to get together and make a raid/foray into one of these manosphere forums, supporting each other's arguments and shooting down sexist crap.
We should weaponize bots to do this. With AI it doesn't even need to be real people anymore.
They're using them against us and it's long past time we responded in kind.
Then good news! There are people doing this. I'm in a discord where some people work on a bot that basically calls out that stuff on reddit. Making the bot is straightforward, the problem is it keeps getting banned for arguing. The hardest part is keeping the reddit account alive.
r/conservative has already disproven that experiment, no matter how much opposition, they will spin a million excuses and point out how their echo chamber is being "brigaded" by bots or whatever
You'd be banned faster than trying to say "Tiananmen" on grad
Several studies also describe the backfire effect, I.e., people getting more entrenched in their position when confronted with opposing arguments. I doubt I can ever succeed where a decade+ of education system failed.
By yourself probably not. But a battalion of opposing arguments could possibly turn the tide. These guys have already demonstrated how susceptible they are to peer pressure, after all. And they're not all online at once, so if they're suddenly in the minority in their usually toxic forum...
So you need a coordinated effort of thousands of people who will get continuously moderated, banned or censored. OK, I admit that it's possible, but I think I'd rather invest my time in other ways...
Well, if you have some to invest, could you see about getting "i.e." into the default autocorrect database so we don't have to go back and force it every time?
Such behaviour is called "brigading" and it's very much frowned upon.