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My ex was like this. I’m actually pretty sure it was pathological, like I mean she’d just lie so automatically and effortlessly. And you’d think that someone who lied like that would be good at it? Lol nope. She was easily the shittiest and most transparent liar ever. Half the time I’d just let it go because calling her out on it in real time never accomplished anything.
And she’s still at it. She got herself a new gf and she’s already spinning up the lie generator and she’s gonna fuck this one up too and she’s genuinely, sincerely going to wonder why her relationships always fall apart. I’m giving it until the end of the year.
I know someone like this and it was very anger inducing. Easily the worst lies and sometimes about the dumbest things too.
I've come to realize its a compulsive thing they do when they're stressed, which made me more sad about it than mad. (But its still a little maddening)