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I agree that dogs and cats likely can't understatd what a kiss is; however, there is still affection being communicated just by the closeness. I think they see it as clumsy nuzzling.
I can't think of anything I find weird. People do things that people do.
Dogs kiss other dogs and people as a sign of affection. They know exactly what it is.
I think they assume we humans are just really shit at grooming. Like they are thinking "this giant hairless ape is terrible at grooming! Stop pecking like a damn bird and give a big ol' lick! No wonder they frequently have to stand under water to clean themselves. Poor dumb weirdo species".
But yes, they are still affectionate towards us. Pets licking is a sign of affection and bonding. I'm pretty sure I'm many cases there's a good degree of 'pity affection' though.
Many animals groom each other with their mouths. I guarantee dogs and cats know exactly what they’re doing when they lick you. And they understand exactly what you’re doing in return.
I don’t kiss my dog, but I definitely put my face close to theirs. I don’t recommend putting mammal fur in your actual mouth, but they know that that means.