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I'd say less than 10%? The vast majority of my problems result from my own irrational actions and poor choices. I've had problematic idiots in professional and social settings but again the main issue in those cases are largely because I cannot stand willfully ignorant people. If I were more chill about morons, it'd be 0%. But that's just me personally and I'm usually an outlier.

This is kind of a hot take, but I don't think we should try to measure and assess IQ and EQ at all. The IQ test in use today tests very specific, very narrow types of intelligence and is not a meaningful measure. In a practical sense intelligence is mostly a matter of speed. Someone with a low or average IQ can solve any problem a high IQ person could, it would just take longer. At every step of thier journey a low IQ person spends more time. Learning the requisite knowledge, understanding the concepts, breaking down the problem, and crafting a solution. Most folks in that situation opt not to continue at some point along the way, but they would eventually get there with enough time and knowledge.

With EQ that's learned behavior. Some people have a natural knack for it, but outside some types of mental illness, emotional intelligence can be taught.