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Or is there always some nagging feeling & angst about things you wish for & you're not sure how to achieve them?

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[โ€“] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[โ€“] JennaR8r@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Me too ๐Ÿ˜ข So the next question is, if your life was exactly the way you wish it would be, what are all the things that would be in it that are missing now?

I'll go first ๐Ÿ˜ข

I wish to fall in love with a man and we could live in a house on the California coast, but first I wish I had a personality that could attract a man like that. Because my personality has always been ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ and I get panic attacks whenever someone talks to me. It's a crippling problem and I need to figure this out.