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I mean, are you just going to let someone kill you and your family?
Because that's what legit pacifism requires, you submitting to the violence of others without resistance.
Pure pacifism relies on an idealized view of humanity's capacity for change.
Something like "by allowing me and my family to maybe be killed, we are helping to create a more peaceful world that will change people like my killer into a peaceful person. Who knows, in the instant before they murder us, maybe they will have a change of heart"
I think there's an extent to which showing others kindness can help to change others' behavior, but it's really taking it to a ridiculous extreme if you apply it to like... your family being massacred by a really bad person/people. By that point, they're too far gone and you should really do what you need to do.
That's not what pacifism means. Pacifism means striving to avoid violence. Just not being a violent psychopath