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Should I warn people that I am a narcissist and have antisocial behavior (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 17 hours ago by solidheron@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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fuck I'm not in the right headspace when I'm asking this, unresolved trauma. Now I'm repeating in my head "love them more than my mental illnesses".

I wanted to warn an organization i cared about my past and that manipulation comes naturally to me to the point where I don't notice after the fact. I legit want see them succeeded and stand in blind solidarity.

I have reached out someone in the organization about my issues. I'm hoping they respond.

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[–] Rhoeri@lemmy.world 14 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

I mean, the logic behind the answer is right there in the question itself. If you’re trying to be honest person because you respect this place, and it’s people, which it seems you are-

Telling them it’s in your nature to deceive is definitely a way to protect them. Even if it’s from you yourself.

[–] solidheron@sh.itjust.works 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

okay, okay, i get it. thanks for sharing ill reread it when I sober up.

[–] TachyonTele@piefed.social 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

Hey man best of luck bettering yourself. I respect it.

[–] solidheron@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks for saying that. Some of these other users are frustrating

Btw I got good sleep

[–] TachyonTele@piefed.social 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Good sleep is important, especially after a night of introspection. It's not a couple of days thing, it takes months to change a single habit. Keep at it and youll turn around in no time and think "i used to be like that"