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Happened to me once. I did not know who he was in told him so. It's possible the guy was bluffing. He claimed to be some state senator.

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[–] mech@feddit.org 35 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

I had a "I can't believe you're who you are."
When a very wealthy businessman who's well-known in the city as a traditionally married, conservative senior and founder of a charity gave me his laptop to "update and fix any issues". He had a Chrome shortcut on the desktop, but I noticed it also had Firefox installed.
I routinely check all installed browsers for any issues like add-ons that may have been installed unintentionally or malicious websites with the permission to show desktop notifications.

When I opened up Firefox, links with images to gay bondage, leather and shit-eating fetish sites showed up directly on the start page. And this guy was watching me while I was working on it. The tension in the room was palpable.
I quickly opened the settings, did my checks and closed the browser without skipping a beat.
"OK, found nothing malicious installed, now let's check your update status."
And pivoted to some small talk about his charity.

Got the biggest tip of my life that day.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 22 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Old conservative gentleman -> definitely is a freak on the internet. The hard data I know about is limited to which US states visit porn sites the most, but there's a lot of anecdotal data.

The repression has to come out somewhere, I guess.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I really don't understand how folks like that don't delete their history before bringing their computer in.

[–] mech@feddit.org 19 points 4 days ago

He wouldn't know how, that's why he paid my boss 120€ per hour to have someone do basic software maintenance on it.