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Good thing to do! My tip: volunteer off-line. Help people live in the real world.
For me personally, this is much more difficult than it seems: I help people a little with small things on the street or in the store, for example, I sometimes give money if they do not have the necessary amount, but I am terribly ashamed to do it offline, and one funny incident happened; I tried to help the old man, he replied that it was not necessary and he would cope on his own, then I tried again, and he yelled at me.
And on the Internet, it's much easier, at least you have time to think about the answer.
An organization with some structure might be a better fit.
Community theater? They always need stagehands, set builders, etc.
Same for community bands and orchestras. A librarian or personnel manager for a group like that is as good as gold.
Conservancy? Help protect your local wild lands?
Find a cause you care about and an organization that works for its benefit and call them to offer some of your time.
Don't take it all out on one event. Sure, it's tough, but it's also tough to accept help. If it's not appriciated, well In any case you did your best and tried. That's enough.
What did you learn from it about yourself?
That helping people is an achievement. This is a thankless job, I know.
I'm sorry that happened! Possibly he wanted to retain his independence as long as possible or sensed a threat (muggers offer "help" before mugging). It's always best to ask if you can be of assistance, and a simple, "Are you sure? It's no trouble," if declined is enough reassurance without being pushy. If the offer is declined a second time, a cheerful and sincere "Okay, have a great day/evening!" is an unakward way to take your leave.
I'm not sure how to volunteer online, unless you want to record audio books, you could upload to YT, or place a few free ads around to social media/local radio offering typing, proofreading, tech support, etc. But I have a feeling free tech support may consume more time than an hour.
It's good of you to want to offer your services. Thank you for that.
Honestly, I did as you said, but that didn't stop him from doing what he did, lol. Oh, these old people.
Well, it's not for everyone. I've had my feelings hurt when I just wanted to help too. You do what best fits for you.
Assuming you're able, I second this. Elderly and infirm will be grateful for an hour of errands, meal prep, dish/laundry washing. Young, able may appreciate an hour of babysitting or reading to children.