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[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

Sex, I could go to the next brothel and have it 10 times a day.

Brothels are illegal in my country.

Or go on tinder and let golddiggers have it.

The vast majority of people are absolutely nowhere near rich enough to attract golddiggers.

If you’re a decently attractive woman, you’ll get it for free on tinder in 5 minutes. Or in the next bar or wherever.

I don't know what proportion of women you believe are decently attractive, but surely you accept it isn't 100%. Also roughly 49% of us are male, and this absolutely and unequivocally is not the experience of even decently attractive men.

I can also walk around asking anyone until I’m lucky.

This would get me slapped and possibly arrested for sexual harassment. It would definitely, definitely, definitely not work. You have to either be an unusually attractive man or alternatively be seeking sex from men for this to have any chance whatsoever of success.

I keep telling you that your experience is far from typical, and I keep telling you that we live completely different lives. You are confident that you could easily get sex if you wanted it, whenever or wherever you wanted it. I promise you 100% that I am right that your experience is NOT universal. You live in a magical world of sex availability. By contrast I live in a blessed world of readily available affection from my friends (who I chose), surrounded by family that love me, but where sex is available with frequency lower than my preference and with zero realistic chance of me getting it elsewhere.

WE ARE NOT THE SAME. Accept it please, and stop telling me I'm wrong about what my own lived experience is like. You are WRONG.

I guess you deliberately want to misunderstand me.

I don't want to deliberately misunderstand you, I want you to hear me. Your experience of readily available sex whenever, wherever, whoever, is far from universal.