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Got banned for telling people that wishing public figures to "kys" is mentally unhealthy
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this post was submitted on 11 Jun 2026
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You went into a trans friendly space, witnessed trans people talking badly about a transphobic person who wishes we didn't exist and puts forth large sums of money to try and make us not exist, and then told said trans people that they "shouldn't wish harm on people" YDM.
What planet are you from? Do you think that "normal people" are supposed to be accepting towards with those who are trying to erase them from everyday life and make their existence as difficult and unpleasant as possible. Fuck you! Trans people do not need to be quiet and convenient for you. This manner of tone policing doesn't accomplish anything except attempt to silence the voices of trans people who are hurting and being hurt.
I'm gonna cut through your bs and just say you need to accept that there's racist, bigots, contrarians, and transphobes out there.
If you want to change the world then you're gonna have to do hard work and explain what being transgender and the trans community is to actual transphobes and you'll have to do it without telling jk Rowling to suck on a shotgun
Who gets offended at the term "normal people" did we persecute people for being normal or something?
Have you considered that you might be a structural bigot and net negative force on the world?
You shouldn't. You're not. You're great. Its the damn tr... People confused about their genders who are wrong. How dare they be so rude to you, a guest in their space! As if they have no concept of Hospitality!
in marginalized spaces we work to recognize that "normal" is only perceived as "normal" because of an established hegemony of violence. you perceive yourself as normal because of your privelege. we ask you, in our spaces, to leave that at the door. that you perceive this as persecution is telling. i'm starting to think this was never about you being uncomfortable with encouraging self harm and suicide, but instead the surrounding ways that you engage with minority issues.
you may not percieve yourself to be a bigot, and maybe you aren't, but not being a bigot isn't the bar you need to clear to be welcomed by marginalized people. you need to be an active anti-bigot. comments like what i quoted above are indicative that you are not quite there yet.
Like in 100% of cases? What if I call slave a normal person did they use violence or hedegomony to get me to call them that or did I respect slave as a human being