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How do people have spontaneous sex in random places without washing? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 day ago by Parvus@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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In popular culture as well as in personal stories told by many people there's often mentions of spontaneously having sex in random places and sometimes with random people: in cars, in clubs, in bathrooms etc. But how do people do that without taking shower beforehand? Penetration is imaginable - if there's no strong bad smell, it might be tollerable, but what about oral sex? Sounds vomit inducing.

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[–] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 14 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

This is such a bizarre post… OP you sound terrified of other people and intimacy, therapy would probably be a huge help

[–] dazaroo@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Where'd you get that reading from?

[–] chobeat@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 hours ago

I wouldn't say terrified, but if the idea of having sex with somebody you like solicits such disgust and makes use terms like "tolerable" or "vomit inducing", there's definitely some issue with intimacy. It might also be lack of direct experience.