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I watch a lot of TikTok and noticed they go after them. I know it isn't my business, but they are my ideal preference, and also I'm not white. Yes, I get that I'm generalizing, but it gets to a certain point where it has some truth to it. Don't ban me, please; I just want at least advice or anything, tbh. Also, sorry for making a weird question; I don't mean to offend anyone or bring controversy into race when it comes to dating.

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[–] _stranger_@lemmy.world 31 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

"I watch a lot of TikTok">

There's your problem. That's basically badly written reality tv, meaning it's all fake performative nonsense.

[–] Cherry@piefed.social 10 points 19 hours ago

Yeh don’t get dating advice from social media. It will make you go crazy.

I hear all the time that woman are only looking for men with a 6figure wage and are avid gym goers. IRL Not a single woman I know has a man like that.

Women are also heavily attracted to genuine personalities that treat them like a personality too.

Good luck. Everyone deserves someone to love.