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The family is one thing, and I think most people expect that.
But something about seeing all the actors and singers and whatever people slowly get SUPER old and die, and constantly replaced with new people you dgaf about who are younger than you, just reminds you that the world is slowly becoming not for your parents, then not for you, and then not for people who are younger than you. And then THOSE people get old and you think "Jesus Christ how old am I?"
I'm not looking forward to it, but suppose I should just embrace it.
I wonder if the correct way to do this is to find stuff you actually care about, and stick with it. So that "outside" remains as outside, and "my interests" remain in my vision.
Or maybe there's nothing really to do besides know it's coming and brace my anis?
I was thinking about this the other day. Brad Pitt, Matthew McConaughey, and Val Kilmer are no longer the chosen lead. At least not as much. Now it's timothee chalamet and I don't get it. I haven't watched much of his movies though.
I am still bummed out about David Bowie's passing. Will there be anyone who can fill his shoes?
Losing friends to suicide hurts the soul. And I thought I had more time with my dad and brother. It's weird to keep living after all these events.
I rewatched Equilibrium the other day in many years, and it's WILD how similar Timothy Chalmet is to Christian Bale. Chalamet is fine, but he's just alright. I personally always thought Bale was more charming.
Regarding Bowie, no. I think he had his own thing going, and for the era then, there are and were movie stars and famous musicians. Now, however, things are so much more fragmented, that fanbases and hype are basically forced capitalism. There's more small-scale glimmer, all over the internet and in various places, but the monolithic "Star" that everybody knows, as a concept, is basically over, and the idea will likely die along with the remnants of them who are still alive, and those of us who knew them. Just like with the silent movies of yore, people like Robert De Niro will slip into legend. Or, those things, like the '80s, will have established themselves as near-permanent tropes and concepts, and will be riffed upon and evolved until they fully dissolve, break down, and integrate themselves into normal, everyday real life society. Games like Cyberpunk 2077 and the up-and-coming GTA VI are a sign of this.
But going on that basically nobody these days even knows who Ray Liotta is, may be a sign that both may be happening.
I'm still waiting for a replacement for John "Total Biscuit" Bain.
I've luckily never lost friends to suicide, only other things. I can only imagine how much that would change the world.
I must be younger or luckier than you, because I still have my immediate family, for now. Though, I'd be lying if I didn't often wonder the ultimate question of purpose. I don't look forwards to a lot of these aspects of growing older, but recently have accepted that one day, death is simply saying goodbye to the world and taking the forever sleep. I'll certainly miss it, even the pain and misery, for that, too, is part of being lucky enough to be alive.