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Did your parents have sex around you as a child?

And if so, what (if any) effect has it had on you?

Is it weird/confusing/traumatic for children, or does it provide a healthier and more realistic model of sexuality than pornography and school-based sex education?

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[โ€“] voracitude@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

We are not talking about fucking in front of children, we are talking about the lived experience of people who that has happened to and how it affected them. That means you are the one drawing false equivalence (you are equating fucking in front of kids with talking about the impact it had on the person). These are life experiences and can be talked about without the need for any thought-policing by you.

I also made no assertions that the OP was asking for permission to be a paedophile.

Is that so...

just asking this question seems noncey

This you?

[โ€“] Astigma@feddit.uk -1 points 6 hours ago

Warning someone that the question they have asked comes across as noncey is not the same as calling them a nonce. Again with the false equivalences.

Maybe I could have worded it better, how about:

"Hey OP, just a heads up, while you yourself may not be a paedo some people may enjoy this thread less for the thought provoking cultural exchanges and more so for the enjoyment of reading about child abuse."

How's that?