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Reading the comments made me realize a couple of things.
When I said it sounded "exhausting," I wasn't really talking about the physical work of moving the sofa. I meant the effort of maintaining the relationships behind it. In many cases, the pizza isn't really the reward. From a Japanese perspective, sharing a meal with someone can actually feel like the more demanding part unless you're very close. Sometimes, even with close friends, it can feel like a bit of an obligation.
I think we have a different idea of what "neighbors" and "friends" mean. For many people in Japan today, neighbors are essentially strangers. There are probably still rural communities where neighbors help each other, but that's much less common in cities. As for friends, we generally don't rely on them for everyday necessities. Of course we're happy to help our friends when they need it, but friendship itself isn't expected to function as part of the infrastructure of daily life. We don't stay friends because we need each other. We stay friends because we enjoy each other's company.