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Last winter I moved family photos off Google Photos to Immich on an old Dell Optiplex 7040 in the closet (Proxmox, Immich, Nextcloud, Matrix). Main reason was Google One kept getting more expensive.

Tech part works. Immich is great, Nextcloud is fine.

People part doesn't. My wife uses it because she has to, but she still brings up January when I almost lost a month of kid photos due to no real backup. My sister is still on Messenger, my mom is on iCloud, so my Matrix server is mostly just me and wife.

I have backup now (USB + B2) and cost is lower than Google One, but time cost is higher and family adoption is low.

For those who self-host for family — how did you actually get them to switch and stick? Did you force it, make it invisible, bribe with something, or just accept that they will stay on Google / Messenger / iCloud?

What worked for you with non-technical family?

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[–] SnowMeowXP@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I somewhat envy you. My family does not want even to use the non-selfhosted ones: icloud, onedrive, etc.

I handle problems like photo storage when they need it, but don’t want the preventive measures for data loss, storage space, etc :(

[–] Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

If you keep fixing their stupid mistakes, they'll never learn. If people insist on being stupid, let them deal with the consequences.