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As I start to host more and more services on my home server, my family and friends are interested in using some of the services I host as well. Up to now, all of my services have been internal-only, and my wife and I just use Tailscale to access everything. Getting others set up with tailscale isn’t an issue, but I can only have up to 4 other users before I have to pay to add more, and I have more than 4 people I would like to have access to some of the things I host.

Right now I’m using cloudflare tunnels to make some services available externally. I’m behind CGNAT, so I’m forced to use something like tunnels or similar. I’ve always read that if you are going to open things up externally to use a reverse proxy (which I use internally), but does this still apply with cloudflare tunnels? What else should I be looking at to make sure I have everything secured properly?

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[–] moonpiedumplings@programming.dev 2 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

EDIT no wait, this post is about secure, not hosting/tunneling in general. This comment is off topic ig.

I would like to avoid paying for a VPS

Oracle cloud free tier, but it does have a history of randomly killing the VPS's created.

Public ipv4 addresses are scarce, and becoming more expensive now. You are probably going to have to shell out some cash if you don't already get one as part of your internet plan.

[–] WASTECH@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

My ISP is charging $20/mo for static IP’s, so almost any other solution would be cheaper.

I hate Oracle with the passion of a thousand suns, so I don’t want to touch them with a 10ft pole. I would happily pay anyone else to avoid using anything affiliated with Oracle.