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So, about 6-8 years ago I got into this on/off gig doing sign spinning even though I was getting too old to get really good at it. In spite of that it was pretty fun and actually paid well whenever I could get work for it. Most of the people who made the job work were in the prime of their lives, including my boss, who was a short girl and by my standards at least really attractive
I had to bow out of the job permanently because it was taking too much of a toll on my knees and back. Some time before then we started following each other on Instagram, around the time the pandemic was making everyone terminally online
One day after I quit she posted a story that said something to the extent of "DM me to get a link to something fun I'm doing," I was clueless but I took her up on it, and it was a link to her Only Fans. That got me convinced to give the website a try. She mostly did solo stuff, which was exactly what I was into, and looked even better than I expected
It was fun to keep up with her on the site until I was an idiot and got my card permanently blocked because I fell for a different model doing a scam on a fake OF and my bank over-corrected when I reported by making it so my card just wouldn't work for OF at all
Near the end of my misadventures with the site she seemed to have a different boyfriend from the one who was working with her in the same company. Around that time her content got more extreme and she started taking pictures with some gnarly bruises. Really hoping she's doing okay now, she at least acknowledged the bruising and insisted she was fine