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I'm a cis male and I believe in the importance of feminism, but I hesitate to call myself a feminist because it seems like there is a presumption of understanding women's experiences as if I was part of the Me Too movement. In some binary sense given how hateful and shitty men can be I'm absolutely a feminist, but I wouldn't declare myself to be one. What is your standpoint?

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[โ€“] SirActionSack@aussie.zone 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

You got bit of a MensRghts idea of what feminism is.

[โ€“] Toasticus@piefed.social -1 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

No I don't. You didn't read a god damn fucking thing I've said, you just wanted to sound righteous you tone-deaf moron. See? YOU are what's wrong. YOU are the one projecting this extremist kind of bullshit and putting it into practice. YOU!

[โ€“] SirActionSack@aussie.zone 3 points 19 hours ago

Sorry, I must have been misled by the way you parrots mens' rights talking points such claiming feminists believe

that men are all bad because a woman experienced just a couple of bad apples.

and that

women should have advantageous edges over men

But I can see from your measured and articulate response that you are definitely not one of those men who overreact and might be considered a bad apple.