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What terrifies men the most about homosexuality? (feddit.org)

submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by ki4jgt@feddit.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I've seen so many men terrified of anything gay themed. I've watched men refuse to be friends with people who didn't act manly enough. I've watched grown-ass men bark "f@gg0+," every time they saw 2 dudes expressing an interest in one another on TV. Pink Pony Club, I Kissed a Girl, and several other songs are a complete turn-off for them.

I have to ask, what scares you guys? What, sitting in the pit of your stomach, do you feel and think when you see gay things?

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[–] CelloMike@lemmy.world 34 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I've heard the argument before that it's tied up in misogyny, homophobic men are, consciously or otherwise, thinking basically "I'm afraid gay men will treat me the way I treat women"

Hence all the anti-gay jokes like "backs against the wall lads" (note how the straight men are often imagining themselves as the bottom) - implication being, "I don't respect consent therefore what if the gay man who's more of a threat to me physically doesn't either"

No idea how accurate this is but it certainly rings true for some behaviours

[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

Drop soap in the shower is another one.