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Yes, I have changed a mind or two. Low single digit percentage, I'm sure. I'm more focused on countering bad information information or presenting a perspective that hasn't been represented yet. I don't really expect to change the mind of the person I'm arguing with.
As for not getting sucked in, does the Lemmy app you use have User Tags? Best feature reddit was completely missing (aside from, you know, the whole FOSS federation thing). I use to apply a tag and color to users. I use yellow to warn myself about someone who I think previously argued in bad faith or might be trolling. I use red for "do not engage"; on reddit I probably would have blocked them but just red-tafging them, I can still see the rest of the community respond to them. Any time a post or comment comes up from someone I've red-tagged, I know not to get sucked in. I use Voyager app on Android.
Good point, and I love when someone presenting other perspectives (even when I disagree!)
Tags are a good suggestion. I did not know about them before. Probably won't use them. I hate to categorize ppl, and would fear that my current emotions and their state of mind when they commented would missplace them.
I think I never blocked anyone either. (probably not enough engagement from my part to feed trolls)
Never preemptively blocked obvious trolls or repost bots? Brave of you. I guess by 'preemptive' I mostly mean without engaging first.