this post was submitted on 27 Sep 2026
102 points (93.2% liked)

No Stupid Questions

49954 readers
779 users here now

No such thing. Ask away!

!nostupidquestions is a community dedicated to being helpful and answering each others' questions on various topics.

The rules for posting and commenting, besides the rules defined here for lemmy.world, are as follows:

Rules (interactive)


Rule 1- All posts must be legitimate questions. All post titles must include a question.

All posts must be legitimate questions, and all post titles must include a question. Questions that are joke or trolling questions, memes, song lyrics as title, etc. are not allowed here. See Rule 6 for all exceptions.



Rule 2- Your question subject cannot be illegal or NSFW material.

Your question subject cannot be illegal or NSFW material. You will be warned first, banned second.



Rule 3- Do not seek mental, medical and professional help here.

Do not seek mental, medical and professional help here. Breaking this rule will not get you or your post removed, but it will put you at risk, and possibly in danger.



Rule 4- No self promotion or upvote-farming of any kind.

That's it.



Rule 5- No baiting or sealioning or promoting an agenda.

Questions which, instead of being of an innocuous nature, are specifically intended (based on reports and in the opinion of our crack moderation team) to bait users into ideological wars on charged political topics will be removed and the authors warned - or banned - depending on severity.



Rule 6- Regarding META posts and joke questions.

Provided it is about the community itself, you may post non-question posts using the [META] tag on your post title.

On fridays, you are allowed to post meme and troll questions, on the condition that it's in text format only, and conforms with our other rules. These posts MUST include the [NSQ Friday] tag in their title.

If you post a serious question on friday and are looking only for legitimate answers, then please include the [Serious] tag on your post. Irrelevant replies will then be removed by moderators.



Rule 7- You can't intentionally annoy, mock, or harass other members.

If you intentionally annoy, mock, harass, or discriminate against any individual member, you will be removed.

Likewise, if you are a member, sympathiser or a resemblant of a movement that is known to largely hate, mock, discriminate against, and/or want to take lives of a group of people, and you were provably vocal about your hate, then you will be banned on sight.



Rule 8- All comments should try to stay relevant to their parent content.



Rule 9- Reposts from other platforms are not allowed.

Let everyone have their own content.



Rule 10- Majority of bots aren't allowed to participate here. This includes using AI responses and summaries.



Credits

Our breathtaking icon was bestowed upon us by @Cevilia!

The greatest banner of all time: by @TheOneWithTheHair!

founded 3 years ago
MODERATORS
 

Let's say I, a middle aged cis man went to my doctor, wanting gender affirming care, and my doctor wanted to provide - what, if anything, would the treatment/care consist of? Just making sure my testosterone level was up to Hegseth-approved standards?

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Yes and no.

While a wide range of medical treatments could be called that with 100% real world accuracy and validity, that isn't how the term "gender affirming care" is used by doctors on a regular basis at this point in time. That might change in the future, but you're asking about now, and about asking a physician.

So, in the current world, that doctor is going to wonder what kind of fuckery you're pulling, and likely find a way to avoid you in the future.

Gender affirming care has a narrow range of definitions medically currently. None of those definitions include treatments that are related to a person that has congruency with their assigned gender. Things like hormone supplementation for cis women or men just isn't that. Gynecomastia treatments aren't gender affirming care either.

Is it in the process of changing to where that is part of the medical usage of the term? Kinda, but it's changing from the outside in, so I'm dubious it'll be a dominant usage any time soon.

See, if you're cis, all medical care is gender affirming to some degree. Some of that is stretching the concept to the breaking point, but the core of the term is about providing care that modifies the body from one's assumed gender to that which matches the internal gender. In other words, if you aren't trans or non binary, or some other flavor other than cis, the care isn't transformative in the same way. It just isn't. Hrt during menopause has a different goal and a different application than hrt for transition on a medical level.

No matter how we use the term colloquially, there is absolutely a difference between colloquial usage and in-jargon usage of any term. In this case, the colloquial usage is being shifted because it radically cruel and morally wrong to deny care to those in need of it for transition when the exact same meds and procedures are often covered by insurance for cis people. The difference between the application of modalities is irrelevant on a social level because no matter that the goal of the treatment is different, it is still a treatment that not only improves lives, it saves them.

But, again, that is not the same thing as current usages within medicine. It'll take time and effort to change that.

Edit: the other part of your question is what would that care look like. The part about the doctor wondering what kind of fuckery you were pulling is the real answer.

That being said, if it wasn't, and the terminology did change, then what you suggested is likely to be the first thing. Your hormone levels would be tested and, if not adequate for function, supplemented. Secondary to that, you would need to consult a cosmetic surgeon for any appearance related issues.

[–] GreyEyedGhost@piefed.ca 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Vision correction isn't gender affirming care. Diabetes treatment isn't gender affirming care. Heart transplants aren't gender affirming care. If the scope of what is commonly or medically termed gender affirming care is broadened, these will not be included, because they have nothing to do with gender.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

And your point is?

Seriously, as a tangent it's fine, but it's rather badly formed. I don't think anyone claimed that diabetes is gender affirming. And nobody with sense could read my comment and think that I'm claiming either that, or that a future definition of gender affirming care won't involve things which are substantially similar to treatments currently grouped under that heading.

So, I'm not sure why you're bringing heart transplants or diabetes up, it makes zero sense in this context.

[–] GreyEyedGhost@piefed.ca 0 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

See, if you're cis, all medical care is gender affirming to some degree. Some of that is stretching the concept to the breaking point, but the core of the term is about providing care that modifies the body from one's assumed gender to that which matches the internal gender.

That's what you said. Not all care is about gender because not everything about being alive is about gender. That is irrespective of whether your cis or trans. That isn't stretching the concept to the breaking point, but well beyond it.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Oh, ffs I have no clue how you read that and got some kind of direct link to unrelated shit, but whatever.

[–] GreyEyedGhost@piefed.ca 1 points 11 hours ago

So what you're saying is when you said "all medical care" you didn't really mean "all medical care". And somehow my examples of medical care aren't related to medical care. My bad, clearly.