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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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[–] fonix232@fedia.io 46 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Or even sexuality really, because, once you actually raise your knowledge beyond "basic biology", it becomes eerily obvious that romantic attraction and sexual attraction aren't always in sync.

But regardless of that, why the fuck would you moderate an ONLINE FORUM based on what 3-5 year olds understand? They don't understand taxes, are tax jokes banned? They don't know how to drive, are road rage dad jokes off the list too?

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 41 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

The more I think about this, the more this mod can suck my clit. Am I supposed to disappear because I'm a bisexual person married with a kid? Am I supposed to not exist around my child because I might make a joke about being bisexual? Am I supposed to hide my own bisexuality until my kid is a teenager?

What the fuck is this gatekeeping?

[–] fonix232@fedia.io 27 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

This is your typical "I'm not homophobic, I don't mind gay people, but" person. They don't "mind" gay/bi/lesbian/trans/queer people existing as long as they do it without them needing to acknowledge that existence.

Or to simplify it... they ARE homophobic, but because of current social trends they're not allowed to say it out loud and they don't want to get cancelled.

[–] voxthefox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 19 hours ago

Exactly, have a guy at work like this, claims hes not homophobic but went on a full on rant about his 8-9 year old kid seeing two guys kissing/making out in front of his flat, I even tried to make him see the homophobia by asking if he would have cared if it was a guy and girl and he confirmed it was mainly about it being two guys..some people.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 13 points 20 hours ago

Gay people existing is political type.

[–] Eq0@literature.cafe 9 points 19 hours ago

Didn’t you get the memo? Anyone not cis, hetero and following gendered stereotypes should never be in the same room as a kid or teen. /s

I agree with the other commenter: it’s finely veiled bigotry.

[–] diaphragmwp@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

married with a kid

Hey, you dropped this: ,

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 8 points 19 hours ago

Married with a kid is different than married to a kid haha, but thank you.