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[โ€“] 13esq@lemmy.world 1 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (2 children)

If, after puberty, you can't easily retract your foreskin over the head of your dick (it also shouldn't hurt), you have a very unhygienic problem called phimosis.

It can be self cured with regular stretching but sometimes you will need a doctor to prescribe a steroid cream to assist with this, the worst cases can require circumcision.

[โ€“] vis4valentine@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 years ago (2 children)

Well, I have that, the thing is, I clean my dick (while flaccid) multiple times a day.

I dont care because im a bottom so is not a problem for me.

[โ€“] 13esq@lemmy.world 1 points 3 years ago (1 children)

For some people, it's so tight that you can't retract it even when flaccid.

[โ€“] SpiderShoeCult@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 years ago (1 children)

It can also lead to priapism if you somehow (through great pain, I'd imagine) manage to retract it and the tight part becomes stuck during an erection. If not treated in time the lack of circulation leads to necrosis.

[โ€“] 13esq@lemmy.world 1 points 3 years ago

I had a few close calls!

[โ€“] instamat@lemmy.world 1 points 3 years ago

What is your cleaning method? I learned way late in life that fully drying after a wash is very important.

[โ€“] Thorry84@feddit.nl 1 points 3 years ago (2 children)

Yes, someone I knew had this. He actually bled because of his foreskin ripping when he lost his virginity when he was 30 or something.

We were on holiday with a group of friends at the time, we shared cabins in groups of 6. One morning we came downstairs and there were sheets hung up in the living room. We asked what happened, he said he had a nosebleed and bled on the sheets. Later we found out from the girl he was with they wanted to have sex, he was a virgin and when they tried his foreskin tore and bled all over everything. Of course by the end of the week everybody in our extended circle knew.

They wound up married, even though they were 10 years apart in age (she was 20 at the time, as were most of our group, he was the older brother of someone in our group). Now he's a fat lazy fuck without a job and the wife has to take care of their two kids, the house and has a job. They still married though, even if the wife's complaining about him all the time. So all's well that ends well I guess.

[โ€“] NABDad@lemmy.world 1 points 3 years ago (1 children)

She should have realized he was lazy since he didn't even bother to retract his foreskin.

[โ€“] orca@orcas.enjoying.yachts 1 points 3 years ago

Dude just flying the ship around with the landing gear down.

[โ€“] InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works 0 points 3 years ago (1 children)

They wound up married, even though they were 10 years apart in age (she was 20 at the time,

Wait, was it 20/30 or 10/20

[โ€“] Thorry84@feddit.nl 1 points 3 years ago

She was 20 when they met, he was 30. They married when she was 25 iirc. He is the older one, she the younger one.