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What's some sex ed info you didn't know until embarrasingly late? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 3 years ago by SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Oh my god I've got so many 😭

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[–] CADmonkey@lemmy.world 1 points 3 years ago (2 children)

Mine was "Not all women like being touched the same way". As in, some women can't reach orgasm from penetration alone, but some do. Some want direct pressure on their clitoris, some do not. And this all makes sense, not everyone likes the same things.

And that is, for me at least, where the fun is. I like to figure things out. I like to see how stuff works. And women are pretty awesome. What would be a better evening than figuring out exactly how to pleasure someone, through communication and experimentation? I'm still finding ways to push my wife's buttons 14 years later.

[–] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 years ago (1 children)

It's always amazing to find someone who communicates

[–] CADmonkey@lemmy.world 1 points 3 years ago

It really is. "This isn't doing it for you? Tell me what does."

[–] ReakDuck@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 years ago

Sucks when the person doesn't like to communicate with you and just ignores her own issues to just satisfy you.

I was less satisfied because I wasn't allowed to figure it out and just felt like a bad person. The sex drive went down for her after a year, no wonder, but its not my fault either.

2 years later and I broke with her up as she was pretty manipulative and impossible to talk to from the beginning.