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Example, putting ketchup on a perfectly cooked ribeye steak at a nice restaurant.

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[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Insulting people for for putting ketchup on their steak and shit like that is not a meaningful discussion.

[–] Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It's not insulting to talk about it.... How insecure does a person have to be to not be able to discuss food choices? I framed the question specifically to include you. There is not objective good/bad right/wrong. Nobody is being insulted because understanding the concept of subjectivity is expected amongst adults...

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It’s not insulting to talk about it… How insecure does a person have to be to not be able to discuss food choices?

It depends entirely on the tone of the conversation. Saying shit like "pineapple on pizza is an abomination" or "ketchup is for babies" is insulting. Giving reasons for why you personally don't like something or how it could be better is fine but to tell others what to do with their own food, so long as they are not wasting it, is wrong.

[–] Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Did I say any of that at any point? Seems like you're just making stuff up to be bothered by lmao. Further, if you're shaken to the core because you like ketchup and someone said its for babies... I mean....

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No you didn't, I was clarifying what I meant by my original statement as it's definitely a thing that happens. Although not as much of it going on in this post as I would have expected to see which is nice.

| Further, if you’re shaken to the core because you like ketchup and someone said its for babies… I mean…

While that was just an example I made up I'd hardly need to be "shaken to the core" by something to think it's wrong. Seems you're the one projecting.

[–] Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's just incredibly annoying/cringy to see someone try to take a perceived moral high ground when it's completely unnecessary.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 19 hours ago

Sorry for thinking people should be respectful of others choices when it has no effect on themselves I guess.