PizzaCake | Bluesky
TW: Sexual Assault
Transcript
7 Panel Comic
Panel 1: White text on blood red background “TW: Sexual Assault”
Panel 2: A guy holds down a semi-conscious naked girl. Her eyes are closed and tear stained. Her mouth in an expression of pain. Around her are more reaching hands.
Jane Doe: This hurts….there’s too many people here…
I can’t breathe…
Panel 3: Beside the girl lays an empty liquor bottle and an empty pill bottle. Hands press down on her head and chest.
Jane Doe: I’ve got the spins
What’s happening
Who’s touching me?
I don’t want to do this anymore
Panel 4: A group of naked men laugh as they enjoy themselves
Jane Doe: I’m scared…
… if I say stop…
…will they get mad?
I can’t talk anyway…
Panel 5: Blood runs between her thighs. Her legs are bruised.
Jane Doe: Ow! Stop grabbing me!
I think I’m bleeding…
…I want to go home…
Just….gonna….shut….down….
Panel 6: The girl wraps her arms around her legs and closes her eyes as she listens to the barrage of insults, vitriol and victim blaming after coming out with what was done to her.
You can’t cry ‘rape’ whenever you regret sleeping with someone!!
Bitch
Maybe don’t hang out with guys!
Your fault for getting drunk!
Whore
You said yes at first! You can’t take it back!
Why didn’t you push them off?!
Slut
She just wants money!
Stop trying to ruin their lives!!
Attention seeker
Panel 7: “Why are they mad at me?”
So, I've read your comment in full and I've thought about how to respond to this.
This comic, while it does reference a current event with the Cornell 7, also portrays the type of thoughtless and harmful comments victims of rape are forced to endure.
I think you probably already knew your remarks are in line with the type portrayed in the final panel given you felt the need to add a massive text disclaimer and noted yourself that your remarks would "sound unpopular".
You start off with "rape, sexual abuse, and other improper sexual behavior ... it's a serious problem we need to address" and then follow it up immediately with a "but". There is no "but" here. A woman was gang raped for 7 hours and nothing happened to the perpetrators and this type of thing is all too common for women who live through this kind of thing and then are told to "get over it".
I understand you went through a similar situation, as did your mother, and that is absolutely terrible. I'm sorry to hear that to both of you and it's awful that your abuser was never held accountable.
Like I said, I spent a while thinking about how to address your remarks, and it's specifically because you shared your experience, but I have a feeling that was the intent here and I feel like you're using your own trauma as a shield for your other remarks.
You bring up an instance on Discord where someone felt uncomfortable from your interactions and then later talked about it in a vent channel. I don't know the situation, but I do question your use of terms like "simps".
"I barely managed to be found innocent, but she wasn't held accountable either," Dude their Discord mods, what do you want? Take those things to court, not social media mods.
"In the end, she was a woman and I was just a man. Women-are-wonderful effect in action." And yet if the world worked like that maybe more women would get justice for the crime committed against them.
"And that happens a lot, and even if the statistics are low" this just personal experience bias.
Your closing remarks are:
"Yeah, you can't take it back and cry rape everytime you regret having sex with anyone, because you can be the one doing false allegations too."
"Yeah, sometimes someone can tell that has been raped because that's an easy way to destroy someone's life and earn free money from the victims' help programs, stealing resources from actual victims."
And you end it with "Support both kinds of victims"
Basically you refute the situation shown here and end it with a "All Lives Matter" type of statement.
So yes, I will be removing your comment as it does not belong here. This is about rape and what victims go through and is not the place for your remarks.