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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.zip/post/73406944

It all started when my main Reddit account was banned—simply because I posted a comment criticizing the banning of a subreddit—resulting in the immediate loss of an account I’d held for about 4 years, with 102k karma. I appealed, but I received no response—not even a reason for my ban, nor any notification that I had been banned in the first place. I’ve filed appeals repeatedly over the past few months, but today, I’m finally giving up. Fuck Spez and his pathetic, whore of a family. When I submitted my appeals, there wasn’t even any indication that they had gone through; I was just left in total silence, unable to do a thing. I started using an existing alt account for basic tasks, but today, that account was banned too—all because I recommended the non-profit, open-source "VPN Gate" project to someone who was complaining about the mandatory KYC (age verification) requirements being imposed in my country. The only reason I was still using Reddit was out of habit, and I’ve decided it’s time to change some of my habits. Ultimately, this is the inevitable fate of every centralized corporation—without exception. There’s no guarantee that some complete moron won’t end up in charge of any of them. I wish more people realized this. If four years of my effort are being sold off to AI data companies, and everything can be permanently wiped out overnight without a word of warning, then that is, quite simply, data theft. Once again, fuck you, Spez—you absolute piece of shit. If you had even an ounce of courage or integrity, you wouldn’t have imposed those damn API restrictions in 2023 and ruined Reddit. I truly regret the four years I spent here, but it’s better to cut my losses now. Goodbye, you son of a bitch Spez, and your puppet, Reddit...

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[–] nutbutter@discuss.tchncs.de 35 points 2 days ago (9 children)

Apart from habits, what were the sub-reddits that kept you there, and stopped from transitioning completely before? We can start making similar content and bring more people here.

[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

Hamsters for one. Opae Ula, Wallsted Method, ecosphere, other sort of niche hobbyist/petcare topics

[–] LiarAmongAll@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

I try to keep mostly to lemmy, but the American football scene and the OSRS scene are nearly non-existent here. OSRS being the worst of the two, there's almost never any updates or posts even. Yeah yeah, be the change I wanna see, but I don't wanna talk to myself, that's how dead it is lol

[–] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Lemmy does not have a very active Boardgames community or a Blood on the Clocktower community. Just doesn't have the numbers for it.

[–] nogooduser@lemmy.world 39 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I went cold turkey after the third party app debacle but I really missed the home assistant subreddit. There is a home assistant community but it’s nowhere near as active.

[–] HCSOThrowaway@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

With respect, "it's not as active" for a Home Assistant community as in what? You don't get replies to your questions? People don't ask you enough of them?

If the former, that is a genuine problem, but hasn't been my experience on Lemmy. There are fewer responses, but they are more thought out and less likely to be puns, references, and other low-hanging-fruit jokes.

If the latter, then proactively make guides so people will be more likely to join? Someone has to be the first on the dance floor.

[–] nogooduser@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

That’s a fair point and it is the latter.

I have only posted one question about a problem that I had and I got an answer that resolved my issue.

Unfortunately, I’m not in a position to help build up the community. I have a very small and basic setup and don’t have time to build it up let alone make posts about building it up.

[–] HCSOThrowaway@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

If 100% of posed questions are answered, I don't think it makes sense to call it any flavor of inactive.

[–] nogooduser@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

A sample size of one isn’t sufficient to conclude that every question gets answered.

Also, I didn’t say that it was inactive. I said that it was nowhere near as active as Reddit.

There are about two or three posts per week which includes all the release announcements for home assistant and various components.

On Reddit there was at least five or ten times that activity with posts every day including questions, automations and dashboard ideas.

[–] bedwyr@piefed.ca 9 points 1 day ago

I miss getting help with all sorts of stuff, home improvement and repair and how to stuff, brewing, growing stuff, and the like. Plus they have way better animal videos, to say nothing of all the other video content not found on lemmy.

Can't be helped, reddit is unusable, politicians and rich dickheads are leaning on them to make moderation decisions and they are trhing to bend us over for them.

[–] dhork@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Not OP, but there are a lot of niche subreddits where you simply can't get information anywhere else. I quit Reddit entirely after the APIocalypse, and I know around that time people started replicating the extensive network of Sports team subreddits in various places here. But, there are simply not enough people here to make that work.

I have not logged in (other than to manipulate the crypto out of my Reddit Vault and sell it before it crashed) since then. There are precisely four subreddits I monitor via RSS because the info simply doesn't make it here. But Reddit has already announced their RSS access is going away. When it does, I guess I'll just have get that info somewhere else.

[–] theedqueen@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

The niche subreddits are really hard to adjust without. I would’ve gone cold turkey if it weren’t for those because you simply can’t find the info anywhere else. I was using RDX to browse those subs but now that’s gone too (for now, hopefully the dev finds a workaround)

[–] Pratai@piefed.ca 6 points 1 day ago

It’s all mostly bots and repost slop. At least it was when I left. I can’t see it being different now.

[–] xtr0n@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I was able to use RDX up until a few days ago. Like you I was mostly out after the API debacle but I did use RDX to browse r/all for mental junk food. I started out just doing it once in a while but I got more in the habit even as the quality dropped. It’s for the best that I no longer have that crutch. I will miss being able to look up the post episode discussion of whatever show I’m currently streaming. I don’t see Lemmy getting the critical mass for those types of discusaions anytime soon.

[–] theedqueen@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah it’s probably better I don’t have the crutch either. I was using it a lot to read stuff like AMITAH and the amount of stuff that was either fake or AI was through the roof. I guess I just wish I had more lead time to wean myself off because being cut off just like that is a hard struggle.

[–] xtr0n@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Girl/boy dinner diaries is basically AMTAH-lite and consistently on the front page. Why is it like catnip to me? I was never gonna wean or taper. It just had to be cold turkey

[–] Pratai@piefed.ca 4 points 1 day ago

Once you realize that it’s all written by AI for the purpose of engagement, its easer to walk away from it.

None of that shit is real.

[–] BossFeather6325@lemmy.zip 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

That reddit shit slowly becoming Instagram 2, most of the origin community already gone ;(

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 15 hours ago

facebook 2.0 actually.

[–] cinoreus@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Gone where though? I wish some of them atleast come here......

[–] skulblaka@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 days ago

I've been clean cold turkey from Reddit for over 3 years now since I made my Lemmy account but I still really miss active discussions about newly released games :(

You can make a post in one of the gaming comms here and sometimes you'll get a couple folks, but it doesn't really catch on the same. I had a grand old time reading tons of build discussion and memes when Elden Ring came out, but since Nightreign came out I effectively haven't interacted with its community at all.

I like Lemmy specifically because it is smaller and more close knit, usually. But it misses out on some of the bigger town-square types of discussion that reddit could enable because reddit had sixty five gorillion users, especially in the gaming space.

I expect that whatever discussion of this type doesn't exist on reddit probably exists on Discord but that also sucks for a completely separate, but similar, set of reasons. I still use Discord, as of currently, but I hate interacting in big public servers and never do it, and it misses a lot of the thread-and-comment structure that I liked so much about Reddit. (Discord does technically support threads, but they work differently and nobody uses them properly anyway.)

[–] False@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

I read reddit but no longer contribute in any way. Activity level is just way lower here, especially for niche interests. I've increased the amount of other websites I look at (here, hacker news, steam forums) overall

[–] BossFeather6325@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Most of my habits stemmed from the fact that I found the general chaos of Mastodon overwhelming and too complex for daily use. For instance, while Reddit has its own straightforward website and app, Mastodon lacks a clear, simple interface—which made it seem overly complicated to me from the start. Consequently, I always found it much easier to quickly hop onto Reddit to post or leave a comment. Most importantly, the number of active users on Mastodon is, unfortunately, still far lower than on Reddit.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago

You're on the Lemmy version of the fediverse. Mastodon is like Twitter, whereas Lemmy and Piefed are like Reddit.

  • Change up how you see stuff: Hot, Scaled, Every 6 hours. Active is the least active ironically.
  • Remember, this is mostly not an angry factory like reddit, so you're going to go through withdrawal. I'm serious.
  • Upvote if you like it an post stuff that interests you.
  • Remember there are still trolls here. They brigade and fight with you for odd reasons. That should give you a heads up if that starts to happen.
  • Not every instance is great.
[–] orclev@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Since Mastodon was mentioned I'll also add that a thoroughly hate that Mastodon doesn't even attempt to show you anything unless you enable Javascript. I'm a user of NoScript so websites don't run JS by default unless I explicitly opt in. For most sites that's not a huge deal since it's just a one time thing but because Mastodon is federated I need to opt in every instance individually which means 90% of the time on the rare occasion I visit a Mastodon link nothing loads initially.

I wish Mastodon did the thing most non-sketchy websitss do and renders at least a basic view of its content without JS so I could at least decide if it's worth enabling JS in the first place.

[–] Ariselas@piefed.ca 5 points 2 days ago

Don't know what his subreddits were, but I still go there for guitar, and luthier (well 8 guitar related subs in total).

We have a NDP community here, but it's not very active, even though I suspect that the sub is mostly bots at this point.