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Why is being a nice and good person less rewarding? (lemmy.zip)

submitted 1 week ago by shojivr@lemmy.zip to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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tried to stay positive, then misfortune strikes
tried making friends, ended up ghosted
tried looking for better job, then scammed
tried save money, inflation happens
tried sell product online, fees and tax cut, also less buyers.
tried theraphy, the solution only dont think about it, its okay (if only it was that easy)
tried being nice, taken advantage of
tried being honest, get hatred
tried religion, yet god let million of nice person suffers
tried sleep, need regular medication
tried work hard, ended up surgery and years of rehabilitation

at this point, i am so tired with whatever i do, it always doesnt work.

right now i can relate why some people choose to become evil person, because being good and nice person in this world is just not as rewarding as bad people does. even those people who ghosted and bullied me ended up becoming rich and succesful, and here i am struggle everyday. life is really unfair world.

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[–] shojivr@lemmy.zip 1 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

well i havent mentioned this but i do have some physical damage from third degree burn plus surgery and years of rehabilitation plus incurable disease i had since kid and also in constant mentally drained, i hardly able to enjoy anything even doing my hobbies, right now it all tastes bland.

and with that condition, i am still forced to deal with so many bad situation i told in this post, to the point that i feel life is pointless and just waiting game for me.

good to hear that your life is getting better in 40s, i hope my life will also get better even thou i dont know when or will it happen or not, nobody knows. i just wish it happens sooner for me, i just really at my limits.

i already tried to find better people as i said this post but ended up ghosted, and scammed by tax and business platform, world really filled with bad and cruel people. plus jobs market is not looking good too.

i am just tired already, if only i can time out or surrender like a game, then i already do.