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After reading this news story that half of Americans are skipping meals because of affordability and a bad economy, I have to ask how are you all doing out there?

I heard from a real estate agent friend of mine that REOs, i.e. bank foreclosures on home mortgages, are going up like crazy, which is a sign of bad times, like the recession of 2007-08.

I have heard from others about rents not being paid, lack of jobs, etc.

Every day, there’s more news of corporate layoffs, moreso than usual.

I live in the economic bubble of the SF Bay Area, where tech wealth more-or-less insulates me and mine from the most serious consequences of a bad economy, but how are things elsewhere?

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[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why did you not just say what your hobby is that includes driving so far away? Lol

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Because I already have a bad habit of rambling and figured writing an entire paragraph to explain was neither needed nor wanted. I cut out half of my original comment, and the original draft didn't add anything about hobbies.

That doesn't justify insinuating that someone's a rapist, murderer, or whatever other angle theyre suggesting.

Also, I didn't ask you, I asked the user making the accusation.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It was a joke, it's a heavy thread and I was trying to inject some levity. Take a breath. Hope you had a happy Halloween my friend.

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ah yes, accusing someone of being a murderer or rapist is obviously light joking!

I would hate to be friends with you if this is what you consider a joke.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Methinks the lady doth protest too much.

[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Also, I didn't ask you, I asked the user making the accusation.

Wow, you are standoffish.

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You literally jumped in to back up someone who's accusing people of being some kind of predator for no reason. Mind your own business, asshole

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 1 points 18 hours ago

Uh, I don't think anyone seriously believed that you were a predator, it was a pretty obvious dark joke. The super defensive overreaction is way more suspicious than if you'd ignored it, or even learned into it.

And this is a public forum. "Minding your own business" is the exact opposite of its purpose.