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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.today/post/63107763

I'm looking for something like Snikket or Prosody, but kids-oriented. I DON'T want my <10 daughter using Meta Messenger Kids! I'll tell my friends to setup for their kids, too. I'd have no access to anything, so it's secure (mom and dad not snooping per se), but the downside is minimal parental controls. Though, no one to really add either.

I'll host or pay for it, IDC. It doesn't seem like there is much out there either.

JusTalk seemed nice when I found out but apparently China owned and so no more secure. I/we need better options!

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[–] Joelk111@lemmy.world 9 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

TIL Meta Messenger Kids exists. Yikes.

[–] spankysalmon@fedinsfw.app 4 points 1 hour ago

Not just for kids. They let politicians and billionaires on there, too!

... /s ... oh GOD I hope /s

[–] unitedwithme@lemmy.today 4 points 1 hour ago

Just building shadow profiles until they hit 13 to syphon the fuck out of everyone's data!

I found out any pictures you upload to FB of your kids, each get their own profile, frequency they appear on your orioles, etc. They build massive profiles around these kids just to tie it all together later!